Just to suggest a slight amendment to what Solara said - to ask for your post to be moved you need to report it (via the report button on the bottom left of what you wrote, or by posting a link to it in the HelpDesk) - mods don't respond to PMs on this form.
If you're asking for opinions on whether or not your wife will trust you again, I don't think that's something people can answer yes or no. We simply don't know you, your wife or enough about the situation. But in a Relationships subforum, you might get other people sharing their advice or experiences generally.
