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Using Soft Toys To Help Healing?

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I have a baby doll that I bought so I could cuddle her, she is a life sized baby doll, wears infant sized 0-3 months cloths and usually sits on my couch. She freaked out my neighbor. I cannot bring myself to cuddle her much, but I have a few times. I'm usually home alone, so I don't know why I feel uneasy cuddling her, but I just do. I have never been able to have children, and miscarried 7 times. I bought her to ease that sorrow. However, I just cannot bring myself to cuddle her or play with her. Maybe I will do so today. I love changing her cloths and I buy cloths for her sometimes and I look at cloths for her in stores, even though I don't always plan to buy them. I have bought her a Mini Mouse Onesie, a summer dress, underwear, but no diapers. I somehow could not bring myself to buy a bunch of those. I also buy things for her at Thrift Stores.

On another note, my therapist has a BUNCH of stuffed toys in her office. Like 20 of them! They are in the waiting room and in her office. I never did ask her if she counsels children, so I don't know if that is why, but I kind of like having them around when I am in her office. They comfort me somehow.
 
I've taken one or more pandas to assessments and dentists appointments, and to a couple of therapy sessions, but usually found that just knowing they wee with me was enough to be soothing. I did introduce them to my last T, because they were "participants" in my therapy.
 
Never took mine to therapy, but once when I was struggling I took one of mine to work. I didn't take him out of my bag, but at break I was able to sit with my bag on my lap, holding and stroking him, which was comforting.
 
When my mom was dying there was this funny stuffed dog with floppy legs and big eyes that I would put on her bed, in a different funny pose every day and make her split with laughter.

So after that I was always good with it (because she was good with it.)

' Bit of softness in a cruel harsh world'. ;) :)
 
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