Hello Kira, your name is beautiful. My oldest daughter who turns 9 this month is named Kira, spelled exactly like yours. Your story sounds very familiar to mine. I too am a Vet/Mom/Wife. I did 9 years in the army and decided I had enough and got out to raise my kids. My hubby is still currently serving. If you have any questions or just want to talk to someone similar to you, I am usually around. I am a new member here as well. I did two tours to Iraq too, First time was in Balad in 03-04 and then Baghdad from 05-06. Message me anytime ;) !!!