While my spouse saw the signs and even told me she thought I had PTSD from my military service, I only realized/accepted it after she told me she is done and ready to end our marriage. During my low points, I withdrew, turned to vices for coping (not infidelity or drug use)and neglected my duties as a partner and teammate. I am committed and made changes but it has only been two weeks. I’m seeing a counselor and am dealing with my stress in more productive ways now. Does anyone have any advice for me to be a better as a person and hopefully save my marriage?