Undiagnosed Was I Molested?

[Bluemoonwillow]

I would start by asking to see a guidance counselor at your school, they can usually help you to decide if you need to seek additional outside resources or not. Also I know as a teen or young adult it is very hard to talk to your parents openly ( I am 38 and still don't). But I think you need to at least tell them you need to see a counselor, or talk to your general practitioner and see they can convince your parents to let you see someone if you are not comfortable talking to them.

 

[intothelight]

@invisiblegirl14 Welcome!

This is a lot to carry around on your own and if you are comfortable, speak to your parents about seeing a therapist. If they were open to providing the opportunity for your sister, they may be open to providing the opportunity for you.

 

[Lolo]

@invisiblegirl14
From what I've heard, people who weren't abused don't think that they were. I didn't remember my abuse until I was 15. I think you should find a therapist to help you understand why you think this. Do you have any other psychological problems?

 

[Laurie2001]

oh sorry I didn't pay attention. You say that you used to touch other kids when you were little (lik...

Little kids do masturbate, even some babies and kids touch each other. However, it would never occur to a little kid, girl or boy to insert something in their private parts unless an older person did it to them or they saw someone do it to someone else. Also they wouldn't hurt themselves there. That is a give away that something was going on. Whatever it was you were and are in pain. And if your parents can get the money together to see a therapist than I really urge you to do so.