'You can be glad you don't have children entangled in all of this'
Gee, thanks. I needed that reminder of why I'm making that particular sacrifice because of shit I just can't go through again in this effing lifetime.
That one stang & felt like a betrayal and I'm just noting it here to not forget it. I don't even care it was realistic evaluation of safety, I didn't need the goddamn reminder. (Or: chill, self. People trying to be helpful don't a target for your rage make.)