What Made You Angry Today?

[watundah]

My spouse often ignores my texts (not just mine) which pisses me off now especially because she's visiting family out of state and I would easily understand if she said "busy now, call you in a bit" or what have you. I am not a needy spouse and we dont talk on the phone every day but a check in would be nice, especially when I see her on Facebook, obviously she is free.

So today I am childishly ignoring her texts to see what it will take for her to dial the damned phone.

 

[Heather]

@Saelben I let her spend the whole day with Brianna's family (the other little girl that was abused). Her father took them to a trampoline play place, then to Bounce Town and then out for pizza.

She said she had a good time and she's with people that will keep her safe. And more importantly that I trust. It's just what she needed.

 

[Deleted member 28403]

@Heather Thats good, Im glad she is better

We can continue in the thread,

and I guess waking up made a bit angry today, I barely slept.

 

[Ronin]

@Heather, has she tried drawing / collaging / artsy things like that? They can help when things are too - beyond words. It's good you're there for her, and that you have safe circle of friends that are both her peer group and trusted by you.

Not sure how to word what I want on this but: You're not failing her, you're supporting her and being a good Mom and being close.

 

[Ronin]

What made me angry today, medical negligence.

I really don't need people enforcing some angles of self-sufficience by their incapability right now. I need to not live in ColdDark. I need to keep the rest of cracked emotionality present & as possible together.

 

[Deleted member 20978]

What made me angry today? Not getting angry. Turns out you can break your head.

Progress?

 

[Deleted member 20978]

OH and my ex-wife has figured out how to drop comments about the fact that she is sleeping with multiple people into FB cat pic posts. Literally. Because that's normal behavior. I think she noticed I haven't bit on anything else she's done in about 6 months and is looking for new ideas.

NOt... angry... :confused:

I know. I looked at FB so it's my fault.

 

[Ronin]

I looked at FB so it's my fault.

Not a fault at all. Just possibly not healthy. Possibly hilariously stupid on her behalf. Depends the angle you prefer to look at it.

 

[Deleted member 20978]

Oh it's such a tangled web she weaves. But the thing is, I have actual friends on FB, from way back. I worry if I unfriend her she'll I dunno put bananas in my tailpipe or something. Best if she thinks she's getting to me, which is hard to convey with complete silence.

Resume anger peoples.

 

[Anrish]

My chief's social competence....or rather his social corpulence. :meh: He lacks everything a good chief needs.

 

[Ed Norton]

Having to carry a double stigma. 1) mental illness (PTSD) 2) the stigma associated with the nature of my trauma.

 

[Deleted member 20978]

Being gaslit and losing the battle. Being called nonsensical repeatedly and not allowed to defend or I'll be abandoned. Being reprimanded for trying to be the bigger person. Being the scapegoat. My mom losing her mind in fits and starts but never going backwards. Having such trouble disengaging. Having paranoia stoked. Being forced into silence.