What Makes You Angry Today?

[Grizzly]

Today, my supervisor.

My wife wants to plan a vacation it is for April of 2015. First thing, she makes sure of her schedule. Next she calls me, asks me about my schedule. Me, I get 9 weeks a year and can roll over 150% from the following year. Takeaway, I will have close to the max by then. I look at my schedule, nothing. I'm not on call and good-to-go. No conflicting schedules either.

So I think we can save a lot of money booking things now. I submit my vacation to my supervisor. I gets kicked back denied. Reason...too far out for scheduling.

I am beyond furious...WTF...I think he doesn't like me for some reason. I am the go-to guy for all issues. The one who volunteers for most the shit jobs no one else knows how to do.

#extremelypissed

 

[Friday]

Complaints. OMFG the complaints!!!

<grin> Trust me, the irony is not lost.

For the past 36 hours it has been nothing but a steady barrage of passive aggressive, bitch, moan, whine, complain, complain, complain...shut the f*ck up! Or at least say what you effing mean!!! If you want something done, or not done, just. say. so. Don't beat around the bush for a million freaking years taking out all your shit and displeasure at the world on me. Oh. You're fine? News to me. I thought by the decibel in your voice Timmy had gone down the damn well. f*ck me.

No lie, I sat and listened to a 4 minute diatribe about "Why do you always / never / always / never / blah de f*cking blah." And then they wanted an answer. Beg pardon? There was a question in there?

I cannot handle all this f*cking lying.

If you want something done, fine. If you want to just vent, also fine, but don't try to justify it by wrapping it up in some kind of pseudo-reality-bullshit that makes your bad mood my fault. Say what you mean. Just say it.

And it's just myopic. Why didn't I put the liner in the damn trash can (3:12 seconds). Perhaps because I just schlepped out your garbage for you, down three flights, across the street, in the pouring rain and I'm changing my clothes. Half of which are on the porch, so I wouldn't track mud in, that I'll be yelled at about next. (While putting the liner in the bin in my towel... Why are you dripping water all over the floor, I wouldn't be if it weren't WWIII about the damn garbage bag... why are your clothes outside? Breathe. Breathe. Meds. Meds are an outstanding idea. Or the warehouse district at night on a Friday, should be... Fine. Meds.) Why didn't I/ why can't I/ FFS. You are complaining that I did something for you. Again. But there's no liner in the bin. Then put one in! This isn't rocket science!!

I can't stay here. I keep getting dragged out here, and then I'm all surprised that the moment I'm here it's 10,000 things Friday Does Wrong in stereo. Chaseus freaking complex on a stick. I do enough things wrong for real.

I love these people. These people drive me crazy.

 

[combatgoldfish]

According to my girlfriend I will miss her when she's gone and better and she's taking my dog

 

[dutchiedelta]

You letting her take the dog?

 

[dutchiedelta]

Not angry but cautious. Very cautious and the feeling of healing,learning, joking and pranks is gone.
Not good.

 

[atilla]

taking the dog?

 

[dutchiedelta]

Yep, just got back. She peed and it's getting dark fast.

 

[Spock]

Common courtesy doesn't exist anymore. I get sideways looks for holding a door open for someone. Maybe it's because I'm a chic, idfk. It's just a nice thing to do though. I agree with what someone said, above, people are so quick to take offense these days, it's pointless to even try to reason with anyone. I, often, see the present state of things as the movie "Idiocracy", if any of you have seen it. It's really a stupid movie but the main idea is basically true. Folks are getting dumber by the day.

This topic caught my eye because I am pissed a good percentage of the time. I don't think it is so much anger, than it is frustration. I have zero patience, especially for dumb stuff/people. I am frustrated about the things in the world that I am absolutely powerless against. It eats me up. It just gets projected as anger, I think. Anxiety is my nemesis. That bitch keeps me awake all night long until I'm exhausted enough for my brain to shut off. That doesn't make me happy.

Such is life.

Well put Loca, I can relate, nice summary. Most of us have shared all over this forum our new frustration or lack of patience with people in general.

 

[Spock]

just needed to pound my keyboard about that somewhere, i never post this shit on facebook an stuff like that coz im not looking for attention, im just venting

Good point Alex, we can vent here much better because on FB it comes across far diffferent

 

[holdenmonty]

So she actually said you better miss her when she's gone... You aren't letting her take your dog are you?

 

[combatgoldfish]

She's not taking shit, including the dog.

 

[Deleted member 43454]

Good I got left with 1 spoon, 1 fork, 1 knife, after school one day lmao.