I'm not sure if it's just communication, trying to piss me off, or what. My wife has come home a few times lately telling me how she had to stick up for me to the people she works with. I won't bother getting in to the life and times of all those winners, but I can tell you that not a one has the right to judge anyone so that's kind of annoying in itself.
My wife has said these people make comments to her like "you should send your husband to work" or "what does he do all day." And my favorite one "why do you let him live off of you?"
Now, my wife sending me to work... Ummmmm I'm 90% with the VA. I do have an I.U. Claim in, but it probably won't be approved because with everything will probably hit 100% without it so that's why I don't work. Not to mention I get headaches, I can't remember stuff, I have anger issues and a bunch of other stuff that is none of their business.
What do I do all day? Child care for 3 kids is over 2k a month. I take my older 2 to school, my son gets out at half day so I pick him up and my oldest gets out at 330 I pick her up. the entire day I have my youngest and I clean and do laundry. Why am I being judged for this? And even more importantly why is my wife needing to "stick up for me?" Just tell these people to f*ck off.
Living off my wife... Really? I make just a little less than my wife does, but she does work for Comcast and she makes good money she has a BA in business leadership. Even if I was working I wouldn't get a job as good as hers. I couldn't finish my degree, and the ability to shoot people isn't exactly marketable. If I get full VA and possibly SSDI I will make a little more than she does, and she already told me she will quit her job and get a part time job doing whatever she wants to do.