Sexual Assault What Would You Say?

[Gena]

Back then I was little and fragile but because of what happened to me I workout a lot. I do a lot of strength training. I am literally obsessed with having a strong complex and I educate my kids on being strong inside and out. I'm no longer helpless like I was then. I know a lot about the law and how to protect myself. It takes a lot of strength to not give up on life and to keep living for those who have been scared. He is old now, he is the fragile one. The tables have turned. He will die alone. Woe to him if we were ever to meet again alone, I'd have no mercy. I would tell him what I just wrote.

 

[TSG]

I don't know which would come out in the event I had the opportunity..."F#*K YOU!" or "I HOPE YOU F%&*#%G DIE, SCARED, IN AGONY AND ALL ALONE!" are the only things that come to mind. I supposed that makes me as messed up in the head as he is. I suppose I am but I have him to thank for that, too. As to all of my Uncles who thought I was their sexual repository from the age of 3 on, I wouldn't bother wasting my breath to say a word, even if I had the chance.

 

[SpentRound3503]

If you could say any one thing to your abuser, what would it be?

Hold still while I cut it off.

 

[Lsquaredw]

This is a hard question. It is hard for me because I am not so sure that my abuser knows that what he did was wrong. He just did it because he felt like it and he needed to have the power and control over me.

I would tell him that I am sorry that he is so messed up. I would let him know that he is lucky that I didn't go to the authorities and got him locked up. It would have been so easy to do, too. I just couldn't do it, though.

I would let him know that I am a survivor and what he did to me does not define me. It is something that happened, but it is not me. I am me and I am a survivor and I am living my life in the healthiest way possible for me right now.

 

[danthedjman]

You will never take control of me. I might have felt helpless when you did it to me, I'm very strong now.

 

[ade simon]

Every thing you got from me was forced,raped.
i gave you NOTHING.
I have the tender love of my children and wife given to me unconditionally
F**k you I win.