I really hope I am not tempting fate by posting this up, but wow what a difference a day makes.
48 hours ago hubby was not really on this planet as he should be, and I have been saying for months that something was not right. There is no way anyone should be in there own world as much as he was, having no energy or motivation do do very much unless pushed, prodded and dragged kicked and screaming at every step.
This morning he got up with his usual smile, (Always had that until meds kicked in), then it stayed all day. I went out this morning for a few hours, to find he had done so many small things while I was out. He had put the dry pots away, washed the dirty ones, chucked the stale bread out for the birds, sat outside on his own, (he was so proud of himself with that one), and watched TV for an hour, before giving in to 2 hours sleep. He was still full of beans when he got up, and it has stayed with him all day.
I have not seen him like this for so long, it is going to take some getting used to. There was me just hoping he would not be falling asleep all the time, and would be able to think clearly, be more alert and be able to do more, even if he did need support. He is even eating more, though still has to be reminded about when to eat just yet.
But I am not complaining, as long as the man I have now can stay for a while, then I won't mind the old one popping up occasionally. As long as it is just for the odd day or so, which I know he will.
If I had known this was what was needed all along, I would have pushed more a long time ago for his meds tweaked. Won't always be taking notice of some of the so called professionals from now on. If something needs sorting, it will get sorted.
They were from 2 different medication families Nicolette, just my messed up head getting the name of one wrong the other day. :rolleyes: Even had the names in front of me at the time, so you can tell how much I was messed up.