When Will I Learn!! Help Me!!

[linasmom]

I'm sure this will come across as mean however, it is not my intention, my intention is to simply be honest about my own feelings regarding this thread -

Robbed,

I think you are seeking sympathy. And it has gone on and on and on and on and on and frankly, I'm a bit tired of it. Your continuous posting about this drama in your life is consuming this part of the forum, in a detrimental way, in my opinion.

If you were raped, I'm sorry about that. But so have others on this forum. To give a play by play of every single day of your life since then has become a bit much, again - in my personal opinion.

We ALL have PTSD, we have ALL suffered trauma. Enough is enough.

As an aside, I am no longer speaking as a moderator, but as a member of this forum.

 

[goingonhope]

Hi Robbed,

I'm terribly sorry for such wrong and violence done you.

There is very little I can say to be supportive to you, as my personal pain and reality has arisen as the result of me attempting to read through your thread. I made it to the part where void asks about your cranial bleeding, ....that's it and i could then go no further, until I popped in to read the most recent post.

Prior to popping back into this thread I had gone off on my own to write more about my traumatic baggage, as it is always in this type of honesty that I find my real answers for action, hope and greater promise for some healing and change. This is how I began:

I'm going just about out of my mind reading from the thread When Will I Learn? Help Me.

It's driving me f'n nuts and making me feel angry. Of course, there is nothing wrong with it, but there certainly is something wrong with me.

From here, I've begun looking at and addressing some of the roots of what has reawoken tonight for me. ie. my past chronic neglect, hurtful memories and traumas.

So Robbed, I just want to thank you for discussing things as they are and for keeping others posted, as you've been asked, on how you're doing.

Also,

Well done robbed... really well done. Congratulations on helping yourself, only you could have done what you did. Great work.... keep it up please.

I like what anthony has said above and I too agree.

I know how easy it is to just shut down for yrs. on end and not be able to express traumatic experience until it one day reaks horribly inner-destructive havoc and demands attention.

So let's not have this happen with you and keep expressing yourself.

Perhaps too, as is the case tonight with me, perhaps your continuing sharing may certainly help you, as well as, shake people like myself up just enough to get out, whatever it is blocked within us, destructive by its very nature and blocking/sabotaging continuing hope of confronting and healing.

Sincerely,
And, My Best to You Robbed
Hope

 

[Nicolette]

Robbed

It is inappropriate for you to allow someone else to post on your behalf. I am closing this thread until Anthony speaks to you about your behaviour.

Dear all,
I am writing this on Robbed's behalf........
Tank you from Robbed's Nurse:hello:

This is not acceptable! Robbed you must not allow others to use your account (if it was someone else posting)!

To be totally honest I get the impression you are seeking Anthony's undivided attention by requesting he PM you about your posts. I would normally edit the post with all the font but I will leave that for Anthony to see in its original form. I also think you are now attention seeking instead of helping yourself.