Death Why Am I Numb?

[sun seeker]

Within the past week and a bit, there have been two deaths in my life: one a person, the other a pet. For one I had some time to get used to the idea; for the other the news was sudden. I had a strong attachment to both, and I don't understand why I am not feeling anything but numbness at the loss. No grief, no tears (and believe me, I am someone who cries. A lot.)

I feel like some kind of a freak, like my emotions are all wired wrong inside. What is wrong with me??

 

[rosey]

There is nothing at all wrong with you this is a very common reaction to any loss. You are subconsciously protecting yourself from the hurt and pain. With time it will come out i have known people not to get to that crying stage for even a year after or at a pivotal moment. Just be gentle with yourself and grieve in your own way there are no norms or rules.