Poll Would You Re-marry Or Marry?

[Queen Boudica]

No I would never marry again. As for getting involved with anyone. I can't see it now. But I don't want to be alone. It would have to be one special man. And they are like golddust and so would already be taken. So not too hopeful.

 

[Anna]

I am still married, but I would never do it again. Maybe in the near future I will be single again. At the moment I have to think of my family. They are the most important thing in my life.

I am not scared of being alone. After all we are all alone. Being so is better than being stuck in an unhappy relationship. However, sometimes for the needs of others you have to put your happiness on hold.

 

[Lucille]

Yes, I would get married. I'm still young, but I'm just hoping I will be able to find "the one." Even more, I'm hoping that PTSD hasn't ruined my chances to be happy and to have complete relationships. Along with that comes the hope that my sexual assault won't keep me from enjoying the love of my life, if and when I do find him...

Here's hoping :inlove:

 

[alleycat]

I'm not terribly excited at the idea of being married, but not because of PTSD. I just don't think two people need to be married to be happy together. If I decide to later, that's one thing, but I refuse to get married just because my SO wants to and kids are completely and utterly out of the question, which I've always made clear to everyone I've been with.

 

[Sandra]

I was always honest about that too Alleycat about not being able to have children.

 

[alleycat]

Sandra -- I've always found it to be best. Almost all of the women in my family have a hard time getting pregnant, my hormones are seriously screwed up, and there are many reasons (PTSD related and not) that I simply don't want them. As it's a pretty big issue for most people it's just better to be honest upfront rather than waiting and getting into a situation where the other person wants them...

 

[Sandra]

Nor would I hold it against someone who wanted them. Everyone's goals in life can be different. Or with some it is from health issues. I just hope the ones I told were able to achieve their goals in their lives. :)

 

[PerfectlyFlawed]

I was practically married to the last man I dated. So, no, I am never planning on marrying. Friends are exhausting, I don't even want to think about a relationship.. :sleep:

 

[lil_fighter]

I would like to marry when I find a decent, respectful guy - but Im ready to wait, Im 23 and if he's out there and is worth waiting for then that's fine by me.

My experiences have made me wise and for a while I swore I'd never date again but I feel positive about meeting someone but it doesn't have to be 'mr right now' and my idea of 'mr right' is not some idealised perfect man but at the same time I have standards and self respect...but yes Im a little scared too I'll admit it which is why I can wait

 

[cat]

I voted no. I was married for 30yrs until things went horribly wrong, I won't risk that happening again.

 

[TLight]

Marriage and true committment takes both people willing to temporarily or permanently put aside their own wants for the benefit of the other person.

I'm with someone I mistakenly married over a year ago and he wants to run the finances, not work, and not have to consult with anyone to get a 'yes' or 'no.'

Marry again? F*cking never man.

 

[kimba]

If I found the right person, I would consider marraige. I never have been and would like to have that special connection to someone. First of all I need to figure myself out and then hope someone will accept who I am and the baggage I come with.if it happens, fine- if not that is okay as well.