P.e. (premature ejaculation)

[Jorav]

So this issue is rather embarrassing, and my doctor thinks it is due to stress related to my PTSD therefore there is nothing she can do to treat it outside of my regular therapy, which doesn't seem to be working. I suffer from premature ejaculation during sexual intercourse, in short sex doesn't last very long for me. This never use to be a problem for me, but as you can imagine this is plaguing my sex life. I'm not sure what I'm looking for here in the way of responses. I'm not sure how anyone here can help me. Maybe just wondering if I stand alone in this issue or if there are others that have this problem.

 

[Fiti]

To a man, every premature ejaculator I've ever slept with has been the rare male specimen who can have multiple orgasms. The trick was not to try and prolong the first from happening (baseball stats, cockrings, cunning linguists & other exceptionally long pauses, etc.), but not to let :eek: kill the arousal. Get past the shame with Yes! This is going to be awesome! And Voila! 2nd orgasm in 15-45 min. roughly. A few men I knew could just energizer for hours, with the orgasms simply cycling / recovery time in action instead of needing to take a break and then coming back.. Clearly, lube is paramount. Of course, I don't know when that isn't true, but it's really true for anything prolonged. If your partner isn't overly enthusiastic about practicing? Experiment masturbating.

If you're on meds, however, and this is a fairly new thing? "May case sexual side effects" is an annoyingly broad term that includes inability to become aroused, premature ejaculation, inability to orgasm, and just all kinds of WTF? Aaaaaargh.

 

[Fipa]

"Pause and squeeze" usually works:

http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/premature-ejaculation/basics/treatment/con-20031160

If not then foreplay is a girl's best friend. Oral sex, mix up other forms of sex.

Its common that anxiety and stress causes it and yoga has been known to work. Its a wonderful exersize, it stretches, and it calms.

 

[Uhovut]

...I accidently left clicked... lol

I found out today that I have an enlarged prostate which is more than likely causing this problem... this and weak ejaculation... the good news is it is treatable (if this is what is causing the problem). The bad news is that it has left me kind of worrying. It also explains some other medical issues I've been having.