To Recovery4Me, I have C-PTSD and I'm pretty disgusted the way it gets renamed every time a new DSM comes out. I know that under DSM-4 it was called DESNOS and even though I won my disability case I'm not real sure, I think under DSM-5 it may now be UTSRD or something but the SSA grants disability as if it were the same as shock trauma but I had a strong IME report which made a lot of the difference. Then there's the VA which seems to be headed in the direction of declaring that C-PTSD is just SMI so they don't have to pay for therapy, THAT'S just disgusting! My late mother was a "cluster B" nightmare (ASPD, NPD, BPD) and I would really hope at some point the the CPS's and courts come out with some mechanism stronger, more accessible to children and more relevant than TROs which are useless against a psychopath (in other words some way for the child to get out of the family before unrecoverable damage is done). I'm so messed up I can't get a wink of sleep without taking a strong antipsychotic so go figure. (I apologize if I've used too many abbreviations but I figure you'll need to understand them sooner or later anyway.)
As for Belinda what I'm looking for is a book that can successfully guide MY THERAPIST (and that HAS to be a trauma specialist by the way, if I'd understood that I would have saved myself about a decade of essentially worthless therapy) whether I understand it or not. I've looked at the equivalent book by Courtois and Ford and I just didn't see the level of specificity compared to Walker's book. Now having said that my current situation is my finances are forcing me to get my therapy on Medicare. I have a good therapist who does EMDR and follows Jim Knipe's book for that therapy (among other works). In a perfect world I'd probably look for a trauma therapist who can follow Walker's book (there are some guides on his website to help you find one, unfortunately none of them take Medicare). Whatever you do remember we're "early days" working through this since C-PTSD has only been a recognized diagnosis since 1992, unfortunately for me by then my mother had done all the damage she could and had already been dead for about 5 years.