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[Snowflake]

who do you turn to when there is no one? What do you do instead?

 

[Deleted member 20280]

:hug:s I turn to myself

 

[Ronin]

^^ This.

Me. I'm always here.

& the God within. I'd be damned to not find some resources, offa scraps. Scraps are Mine.

 

[lostforgottensoul]

What do you do instead?

Come here. No one is ever there in my real life so i come here. If i dont know what to say or how to express what it is, i just browse the forums...sometimes giving out thoughts and opinions and sometimes that helps and other times i just search in old forums for dumb keywords. Sounds stupid but its helped. But thats my answer...i come here.

 

[Snowflake]

Come here. No one is ever there in my real life so i come here. If i dont know what to say...

I have done this too. I have no one in my life. Tonight I texted 2 people and emailed 2 people and they just didn't get it. ----not they are considered friends. I even left 2 messages for my therapist in 10 minutes. I felt overwhelmed and alone.

 

[Killashandra]

This forum or lifeline. Lifeline is a crisis hotline in australia,

 

[expectingbetter]

I have just come here for same reason. @lostforgottensoul is so right.
I am so sorry you don't have real support in your life and so sorry those people didn't answer.
I came here right now as I need so badly some support.
This sight is really life savior.
I agree so much with @lostforgottensoul

So many of us here feel completely lonely, so you need to us as well. I feel right now like the loneliest person in the world because my therapist is leaving and will be absent whole summer.
I couldn't have slept due to that, I was also trying to figure out to whom I could turn to. And I came here. And saw exactly yours thread. What a coincidence.

It is comforting knowing I am not alone but I wish we all had someone at least.
I couldn't also figured out anybody but this Forum.

I am afraid of other people and hide everything from them.

Sending you hug if you accept

 

[lostforgottensoul]

Aww @Snowflake im sorry! Im alone too, no one to text...but thats hard when you reach out and no one grabs you. Know im with you! :hug:

 

[expectingbetter]

excellent question you posted actually, I wish someone would give us some answer that could help.

I think everybody deserves to have at least one person to be able to turn to whenever they need.

 

[Snowflake]

I have just come here for same reason. @lostforgottensoul is so right.
I am...

Yep it's hard - my therapist is leaving this week, only for 12 days, but bad enough-I have nothing. No one understands are "language" or us or our needs. It's sad. I have had someone say that only I can help myself, only I can love myself, only I can meet my needs. Ugh-I can't accept that right now. I just want someone to wrap there arms around me and tell me it's okay to cry or talk and they will listen. .... But no one does. (Sorry I am rambling)

 

[Snowflake]

I have also been told to journal. NO WAY!!! I want someone to listen and hold me and let me cry. How hard is that request?

 

[expectingbetter]

I just want someone to wrap there arms around me and tell me it's okay to cry or talk and they will listen. .... But no one does. (Sorry I am rambling)

Me too, and even my therapist has never done that. And never will.
It's a pity money can't buy everything.

I sympathize with you so much. I know 12 days is like a eternity when you count only on that help.
I wish I could have healed more before my left. But I guess this is one big mess and can't be healed faster.

I also so much yearn to be hugged :cry: