I Have To Forget My Boyfriend

[Deleted member 36220]

Things are really bad lately and he left overseas he isn't at war he has to work over there for logistics. He hasn't called me in a month and I can't handle it. I love him and he is basically the only person that have really. I mean I have my mom and sister but they don't understand me now matter how hard I try to explain it to them. I'm going through so much. I don't know if this is the right forum..I just can't believe he just left and hasn't contacted me at all. I can't take it anymore it feels so bad. I miss him so much I can't take it anymore. We talked about him contacting me when he can and he said he would so that we can keep our relationship good and he lied to me. I hate him so much right now. I can't believe he just left like this. I called out from work today because things have been going so bad lately I just couldn't leave the house today.

 

[Gs172003]

I'm sorry you feel so alone. Has he done this before?

 

[Deleted member 36220]

No not a freaking month...usually its days and I get that because of his job but a month. It's unforgivable.

 

[Deleted member 36220]

I feel like the world is completely against me and that I'm cursed. My boyfriend disappeared, my job offered me a new job and forgot about it, my smell/taste is gone, I'm broke, things are getting worse the harder I try and i want to give up. Thats why i stayed home from work..im giviing up the more I work the more things get bad and crumble even more. I can't be happy the world does not want me to be happy evver.

 

[Gs172003]

I feel like the world is completely against me and that I'm cursed. My boyfriend disappeared, my job...

Are you getting help?

 

[Deleted member 36220]

I try everyday for help....I really do but things keep getting worse. I work so hard.

 

[Gs172003]

I try everyday for help....I really do but things keep getting worse. I work so hard.

Find yourself a therapist. If you can't afford one, find a student that is finishing up school. Alot of times they are super cheap or free. You need to get in therapy.

 

[Deleted member 36220]

What about my actual life right now? It's falling apart right now. A therapist cannot fix that.

 

[Deleted member 36220]

is this place only to be told to see a therapist? Thats the only reply I seem to ever get. Just go to a therapist.

 

[Deleted member 36220]

sorry nvm I shouldn't really even be posting here anyway. I need to try to do something else its not like posting is gonna help. ...thank you.

 

[Gs172003]

sorry nvm I shouldn't really even be posting here anyway. I need to try to do something else its not...

There is nothing anybody here can do to make your boyfriend call or change your work situation. But what we can do is direct you to somewhere that you can learn some coping skills to deal with what is going on. In the meantime, maybe you need to do something to distract yourself like watch a funny movie or go out with friends? I don't know what you are looking for.

 

[Deleted member 36220]

I'm sorry but I know there is nothing you can physically do to make those things happen you're right. I shouldnt be posting about it. Its pointless. Thanks again.