Psychic Medium To 'speak' To Dead Sex Offender??

[Stickler]

I am so close to meeting his parents too and I don't know what I want from them either. An apology? Maybe to understand how their son could be such a psychopath?.

I dunno what answers his parents will have, but those answers will probably be about what his parents need to think and feel. Not about your needs.

 

[Sideways]

Feeling your abuser's constant presence? Absolutely. Frequently. And I'm not a particularly spiritual person, but this concept kinda makes sense to me.

My abuser, what I learned from him, continues to influence how I see myself, others, the rest of the world. My self-concept, thoughts, emotional patterns, behaviours, body image - everything about my existence right now continues to be influenced by him and what he did.

The feeling that that influence has sunk right down to the core of my soul (whatever that is)? Of course it has - it's impacted every other facet of my existence here on earth, so why would my soul be unscathed? And if he's influencing that much of my very existence, then he's pretty 'Present' if you kbow what I mean? So oftentimes when it feels like he's still with me? Yeah, he is, in every sense except the physical one.

 

[Sideways]

And no, I don't think we should try to speak to them. There are no answers to my questions that will fix anything. But of all the people who have walked god's green earth, I am most vulnerable (by a long shot) to him. It's gotta be about moving forward and protecting myself now, because there are no answers to those questions, even if you could ask them. Like, why? Or why me?

Just because, Ragdoll. Just because.

 

[Ronin]

Nah, nah. Don't go to the medium.

Dead dipshit, if truly bothering you, needs other righteous dead sic'd on his ass to stop bothering you, and let you live in peace.

And the rules DO apply.
Alive or dead, dipshit is a dipshit and gets a smackdown.

No talking to him needed, in every case. :)

 

[Deleted member 541]

@Orion if you feel that your abuser hasn't abused you enough on this earth, then by all means, yes, go see a psychic and be abused from beyond the grave..

 

[Deleted member 35429]

Some really profoundly good answers and funny responses. I will spend that money on a yoga retreat or something instead. Eff him. It is true, what could he say that would change anything about how I feel. "Sorry"?? That would be an insult almost. Sorry ain't enough. There really is nothing he could say to repair the damage. I just need to keep letting it go.

 

[Deleted member 541]

@Orion If he wasn't remorseful before he died, then he wasn't. Death wouldn't change it. I went to my mother 3 weeks before she died and told her I forgave her, and asked if she could forgive me. She refused to talk about it. She died, its been 20 yrs and I still haven't grieved for her. Don't think I will either.

So yes, you need to let this go. It's holding you on an unhealthy pattern.

 

[PointlessExistence]

We're all looking for a cure. It's hard to know what's worth it and what isn't. It's part of our stupid affliction. I think there are true mediums who can help, but there are a lot more frauds who are looking to prey on the vulnerable. Chances are you'll be ripped off.

 

[Neverthesame]

Save your money.

If you must pose a question to this corpse, I would suggest not hiring a medium.
Instead, just stomp your foot on the floor a couple times, look down and shout "Hey asshole, hot enough for ya' down there?"

 

[PointlessExistence]

Edit: I see you've already come to the same conclusion about what kind of answers you'd get, so I'm deleting this post

 

[Gs172003]

Feeling your abuser's constant presence? Absolutely. Frequently. And I'm not a particularly s...

on top of what you've said,
I have realized that I feel like he lives in my husband as unfair as that is. And I take it out on him when I'm symptomatic. It makes a hard marriage even harder. Im sorry for you all. Orion, honey save your money. Really. I doubt it will help anyway.

 

[aut555]

The more time and money, energy you spend on this twisted fxxk, gives him the power to stay on. The quicker you release him and his toxic energy, you win. The more that you move to a healing, happy, well-adjusted place kicks him in the akole. In fact, do you really need to see his parents? But sending support and a healing white light to refocus you on your new journey.