Greif Is Simple

[IamFree]

I am recovering from cptsd. After a life time of pushing things down I have become aware there is much I need to greive for..I have felt so confused though . Were do I begin there is a whole a to z of things to greive for how do I attend to it all...then I realised I do not have to greive for everything one by one because I think there is only one thing that sums it all up..I am grieving for loss of love..the love of a healthy family..the love of a safe secure life..the love of what could have been for me and my family..the love of my self and my body.....greif really is just a loss of love in the end...but I believe love can be found again.

 

[EveHarrington]

Your last statement is very powerful.

Thank you for that.

:hug:

 

[Fadeaway]

Not what I was excepting. To be honest I was expecting to come in and feel the need to argue what ever point you were trying to make. But wow!

 

[VioletButterfly]

In that space - thank you for sharing. VB

 

[IamFree]

Not what I was excepting. To be honest I was expecting to come in and feel the need to argue what ever...

Ha ha well i have no problems with a debate but I am glad I won you over as that really was from the heart

 

[Gadgie]

Quote........"but I believe love can be found again."

Aye! there is always hope.

 

[Panda Bear]

Welcome to that space! I know it well, and wish everyone feels it and finds it someday. I'm so thankful you have too!

Grief is an ongoing process, but it's filled with such redemption and fullness....but mostly, love!

One step at a time, in the moment sometimes. I'll stop and feel the grief wash over me. It can't be organized or sorted into neat and tidy piles.