Betrayed By The Closest One Now Scared Of All

[Betrayed]

I know this is going to take me awhile to get past but the things I am learning now are I don't know how to describe them. she was also my caregiver as I am a disabled vet and I have learn that she was not telling me of or helping me get to appointments and was also not giving me meds or giving me expired or inappropriate meds. the docs are pissed and things are quickly making me worse thank god for the VA for helping or I would be even worse

 

[Ronin]

@Betrayed, what else helps you make system in things, get organized?

Glad you're having people to reach out to & the VA helps you, very much :) An' man, aren't the docs like, always pissed? :D You'll be fine, they're just busy fellows, they anger is not on you.

 

[Betrayed]

@Betrayed, what else helps you make system in things, get organized?

Glad you're havin...

they are pissed at her this time since she told them she was taking care of my appointments and meds.

 

[Ronin]

Ah, I'm following. Sorry for that.

 

[Betrayed]

it's ok this whole situation has me going in circles mentally.

 

[Ronin]

Is there anyone who could help you with daily necessities that you could call?

Or that you could email with a request of assistance? (I'm thinking of what could temporarily bridge the huge gap your wife left over, sadly; as in what of daily things could be covered via other means.)

 

[Canticle]

I was hurt betrayed and abandoned by wife and it is making my problems so much worse it is so hard to...

Just saying; I had to choose me... I mean, my love could not endure the ill intentions! My trigger was so deep that I had to leave it all behind. There was no way in hell I was going to face my trigger in court, kind of thing ! So I turned the tide and convinced myself, that my sacred trust was make belief! My trigger belongs to me and my love within; lets it be !

 

[Betrayed]

I am getting a new caregiver but the worst part is they have to restart all my medications from square one everything was messed up even appointments were cancelled without my knowledge i don't know if she can get in trouble for this or not.

 

[Ronin]

That sounds complicated & stressful @Betrayed.

Very hopeful they get your meds straight this time, & the caregiver is pleasant to be around. Hang on tight buddy.

 

[The Albatross]

I read but couldn't respond for a while cuz my sister-in-law messed my brother up to the point of being nearly suicidal by messing with his medications not too long ago. For some reason my brother elected to stay with his wife. I don't know how he could rationalize/square that one up. Quite alien to me.

Know that starting at square one again with meds and a new caregiver isn't easy but it is far and away better than what you've experienced.

 

[Freedomfighter]

I was hurt betrayed and abandoned by wife and it is making my problems so much worse it is so hard to...

If anything my fear has often saved my life. When I have an uneasy feeling about someone I get fearful due to previous abuse, the reactions of a predator to my fear are always the same, discredit the victim as fast as possible and then "punish" the victim.

 

[whiteraven]

I am so sorry. I know so well how being betrayed by someone you trusted creates a deep sense of distrust in you for everyone. I've been going through that for over 2 years now. What I've done is take it very, very slowly. A lot of the time it feels like one step forward and two steps back, but the deep hurt has passed and now I'm just "dealing," if you know what I mean. Take care of yourself during this hard time.