Therapy Relationship Has Fallen Apart.

[Suzetig]

I think in this case written communication is better because you can actually see what he's saying and aren't relying on you memory, which can be very unreliable in a conversation where emotions are heightened. You have space to process and the opportunity to talk to him about it which is important.

 

[NightSky]

I agree with @kilted. My first impression was one of surprise with the language used by your T..very casual and sounds more like friends fighting.

 

[UpsAndDowns]

This is going to be SO long but i need to get it off my chest, get feedback, and support....

Just get another therapist if this is causing you so much pain or try to understand his side of things....

 

[Deleted member 8714]

@nomorechickenlittle
I suggest you read an article on the web which I found when my therapist was acting in ways I determined to be inappropriate. The article is called "50 Signs of Good Therapy." It's companion is called "50 Warning Signs of Questionable Therapy." These two articles helped me make the decision to leave my therapist. Thank goodness I did. She was poison to me.

 

[nomorechickenlittle]

I think in this case written communication is better because you can actually see what he's saying and...

That is a very good point thanks.

 

[nomorechickenlittle]

@nomorechickenlittle
I suggest you read an article on the web which I found when...

Thanks a lot. I will look them up. I'm now really questioning myself wondering how long i was wasting my time and money for. I think it was beneficial in the first while. I am questioning if and when he 'checked out' and stopped caring and/or trying. I do feel like somewhere along the line he stopped caring about the work.