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A.J. Bastian

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Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder is a terrible disease that is killing many of the men and women that are protecting our country. As many of you know, this can be dealt with, but only if it is caught in time and the person is willing to get the help. So I ask you, how can we help get more recognition and how can we convince the affected that it is not a sign of weakness?

For some reason most people effected by PTSD seem to believe there is some sort of stigma attached to it, that they will be seen as weak if they admit something is wrong. We have to convince them that this is not the case, and that there are people out there going through the same thing. There are many resources to help people deal with this, but most people do not know about them, especially those from the older wars such as Korea or Vietnam wars.

The veterans of older wars deserve the help they need too. Back in those days not much was known about PTSD so there was not much done about it. Now that we know more about this beast we can help save more lives. Too many people have had to live with this without help for way too long, in my opinion. They need to know that there are places they can go, there is monetary help for this if they need it.

Military OneSource is a great tool that everyone who has served in the past couple years knows about. But, the people who have served previously may not know about this. Military OneSource offers so much to our veterans, ranging anywhere from helping you locate the help you need to information about going back to school. They also will help your family get ready for your coming home, or help them better understand why you are acting the way you are, whether it be better or worse than before.

There are local VFW’s all over the nation, and they are willing to help. While it may not be the professional help you may need, there are many people there that have been through similar situations and can help. In my experience, veterans are always willing to lend an ear when you need to talk or be that shoulder you need to lean on when you are weak.

I want to send out a message to people to show them that they are not alone, and that there is help. But in order to do that I feel like we need to make this more of an issue to the general public. If you walked out into the street and asked a random person what they know about Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder not many people will be able to answer. However, if you ask them about any other disease they will probably be able to offer at least a little bit of knowledge about it.

Why do people not know about this? People die every day from this but not many people know much about it and I want to change that, but I need everyone’s help with this one. There are many powerful social media networks we could use to get more information out there. Facebook has taken over so many peoples lives, some people check it every chance they get. So we could send out mass messages on that, or post a status update letting people know about this disease that takes out brothers and sisters away.

Forums like this are very important, they let us vent our problems and let us know that we are not alone. This forum has already helped me and I have not been on here that long, but we could do more for those that have been extremely affected and/or do not know about websites like this. We need to reach out and get them the help they deserve before it is too late. We cannot bring this war home with us, we need to leave it behind and live our lives to the fullest. Every combat veteran needs to know that they have our utmost respect and we are here for them for anything they need.
 
I like what your saying AJ and we whole heartily agree with you. Everyone should know, but they are ignorant.

PTSD was first defined as a diagnosis in the DSM III in 1980, yet it was called many different things prior to that.
It was called Soldier's Irritable Heart during the US Civil War, Shell Shock during WWI, War Neurosis & Combat Exhaustion during WWII.
There have been written accounts from 1000 years ago. Even after the great fire of London and in the aftermath of ancient battles.

So PTSD is one way shape or form has been known about.

With victims of sexual abuse, rape etc, natural disasters, auto wrecks its a common diagnosis. However, think about what it does to the military. The military has to work as a fine oiled machine. You know how fear spreads quickly and is stamped out. If a thief is found they are brutally beaten up. The same with PTSD. I still believe today that people know about it, they are just misinformed. Just like in the early days people thought they could get AIDS from shaking someones hand.

The other factor is the dramatization with the television shows and movies nowadays. When ex service people go nuts the first thing they query is PTSD. That is why the stigma is there.

So, PTSD has been known about. But, realistically, since Vietnam, the war on terror is the largest and longest in duration and has had the most people deployed to it. Just think how many hundreds of thousands have been deployed there over the last 10 years. So now its a numbers game.

There are so many returned service personnel throughout the world that the amount of people presenting with PTSD to the VA is causing an overload. Australia is just a small nation, yet I know that the wait can be up to 12 months to have your claim assessed, so I can't imagine what it would be like in other countries.

So the more people we can get involved in forums like this, the better off we will be. A lot of the government organisations don't want to know about it, but at least we can help each other.
 
A lot of the government organisations don't want to know about it, but at least we can help each other.

I was actually talking to my Therapist last week on the issue, that here in Germany there is nothing for the guys getting back from tours, I mean there is enough knowledge out there (from the USA, UK, Oz may be a bit to far to see from Germany) at the moment that shows PTSD is an issue and needs to be dealt with but still the Germans will not accept it as an issue.

As a Brit I know a few German lads who were in Kosovo and Afghanistan who are realy strugling, and there is nothing from the State. Real f*cking sad. We chat now and again when we see each other and you can tell it helps, (f*ck I know it helps) but it still needs/takes more.
 
There always has and I believe will always be a stigma attached to PTSD, being wounded in combat and even serving in the military. I quickly learned when I returned from Nam not to tell people that I'd been wounded or how badly. I wouldn't mention that I served in the military when filling out job applications. There just seemed to be a prejudice against those that did serve, like we weren't smart or clever enough to avoid going in the military.

Today people just see us a another group with their hand out trying to get something from the gov't for nothing. I attribute that stuff to the reason so many of us either commit suicide or just go into a shell and avoid people altogether. I'd like to think that going out and educating people about it would help but I'm a cynical sob and don't.

I do believe that we can help each other, it seems to be the best to hope for. Maybe if we help one other vet with PTSD, we've done our job. Just Jar's 2 cents.

JarHed
 
..........I do believe that we can help each other, it seems to be the best to hope for. Maybe if we help one other vet with PTSD, we've done our job. Just Jar's 2 cents.JarHed

In our hamlet there are only 3 houses and 1 farm yard, 1 klick down the road is the next village, a huge 30 houses. I found out on Friday that there is a Brit living there. George as I have now found out. is a 84 year old vet, joined the army at 15 which would have been in 1942 and was 7 years with the Gordon Highlanders, he didn`t say so but I assume he was WW2 he did say that he spent time in Malayasia. I poped round on monday to say hello, took him a bundle of NAAFI tea, It done me real good to try and brighten someone elses day. He was over the moon that someone had thought of him. I can`t help but think if thats how i`ll end up. Alone, family down the road but no one giving a shit. Hoping that some stranger will pop round for a cuppa :(
 
PTSD is not a terrible disease it is a terrible condition a mental disorder and if you let it rule your life you will be worst off for it I returned from VN, and was quite a piece of work, and latter found that every one I had any thing to do with thought that I had a few lose bolts, and was a person to stay back from. No one would tell me this it was my wife how finally got me to agree to go get some help, and from my experiance it seems that the VA's answer for this is drugs and lets talk, well those things just do not get it for me was never a person that liked the druged state so do not use them and as far as talk what the saying walk a mile in my shoes then lets talk to much rant.
 
Hey RL

From your post I'd assume that you aren't in any form of treatment at the present time, but did have some help at some point. What do you do at the present time for your PTSD? Always curious about how people learn to deal with it.

JarHed
 
Just so you know, I posted a link to this site on a M-14 forum a few weeks ago. The guys like it. Have no idea how many may have come and checked out this site.......Hoping.......

J R
 
Hey JR

Do you mean M-14, like the rifle? I think I'd be interested in that.
Jar

Yes.....here is the link. Dead Link Removed this is the best forum on the M-14 and the M1 Grand.
Below is a pic of my girl friend Xena: (Warrior Princess) Springfield M1A1 Super Match 1 in 12 twist, Springfield ART Scope and Muzzle Brake.

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Hey JR

That's a beauty! Before I went over to 'Nam I had an M-14. It was the standard issue in the Marines. I even used it for a while when they deployed my unit to 'Nam. Had to give it up for an M-16. I cried when I put it in the shipping crate. Hand rubbed linseed oil stock, ahh, I miss that damn thing. I'm going to have to check that site out. I'm starting to drool a little. :rolleyes:

Jar
 
Hey JR

That's a beauty! Before I went over to 'Nam I had an M-14. It was the standard issue in the Marines. I even used it for a while when they deployed my unit to 'Nam. Had to give it up for an M-16. I cried when I put it in the shipping crate. Hand rubbed linseed oil stock, ahh, I miss that damn thing. I'm going to have to check that site out. I'm starting to drool a little. :rolleyes:

Jar
Your post reminds of the old brit ( SLR ) Self Loading Rifle used 7.62 round it had a bit of a kick and was a lot better than the SA80 crap they use now.
 
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