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Too Pretty
Why do so many men see me as a sex object?
I don't dress provocatively, in fact I dress super modestly! I don't wear flashy colors or anything like that either. I don't wear heels or make-up. I don't have a super sexy figure, not in my own estimation anyway. All I know is that there have been several men over the years who have not taken NO! for an answer very well.
Either they have turned against me and done nasty things to me by talking a bunch of sh*t about me or they have just begged me for sex for years, even though I have said NO! repeatedly.
Then there are the ones who have a girlfriend or a lover or a wife who have propositioned me. When I have said NO!, they have then gone out of their way to deny they ever did this to me, even though I have said nothing to anyone about it. (Or in the case of it happening in a work environment, I have reported it to the boss, only to have it disbelieved, poo poo'ed or been told I overreacted). No sympathy or anything of the sort has ever come from a boss concerning this type of behavior in co-workers or clients.
Now, I do have a pretty face, it is true. Many men have told me that, or I might not have known it. I did not consider myself as pretty, in fact, boys told me I was ugly when I was a kid. So being told I am beautiful later on in life was a surprise.
Is it something about me, or are there a lot of men out there that are like this? What's up with this? Do you other girls and women have this happen too?
I don't dress provocatively, in fact I dress super modestly! I don't wear flashy colors or anything like that either. I don't wear heels or make-up. I don't have a super sexy figure, not in my own estimation anyway. All I know is that there have been several men over the years who have not taken NO! for an answer very well.
Either they have turned against me and done nasty things to me by talking a bunch of sh*t about me or they have just begged me for sex for years, even though I have said NO! repeatedly.
Then there are the ones who have a girlfriend or a lover or a wife who have propositioned me. When I have said NO!, they have then gone out of their way to deny they ever did this to me, even though I have said nothing to anyone about it. (Or in the case of it happening in a work environment, I have reported it to the boss, only to have it disbelieved, poo poo'ed or been told I overreacted). No sympathy or anything of the sort has ever come from a boss concerning this type of behavior in co-workers or clients.
Now, I do have a pretty face, it is true. Many men have told me that, or I might not have known it. I did not consider myself as pretty, in fact, boys told me I was ugly when I was a kid. So being told I am beautiful later on in life was a surprise.
Is it something about me, or are there a lot of men out there that are like this? What's up with this? Do you other girls and women have this happen too?
