General How Did Your Loved One Tell You ?

[pandora]

Thank you both...

Nicolette...it sounds like a fairy tale..LOL. I think you guys have something that is very special and I am so happy for you both because of it.

It is funny...when I do think positive about myself and think of being in a relationship. I get an excited feeling. If i am in a negative mood..I think of every imperfection and failure I have ever made. You are very right! I think i just need to focus on getting back into life and start to feel good about myself. Then I will start to ventureout..I am only 38. The party I went to tonight a lot of the people there were in couples. It made me feel a bit sad and jealous. I need to beleive in myself that I really am an ok person, I am not a supermodel but I think I am ok ( for being almost 40)LOL.I am educated and I have a heart as big as gold...now I just need to beleive that again.

Than you for sharing that story...it was very inspirational...You found a man to stand behind you...even with all the bad things that happened. I also need to beleive that my bad things do not define me! You loved Anthonny even though he had an illness...

 

[Nicolette]

I also need to beleive that my bad things do not define me! You loved Anthonny even though he had an illness...

You are a good catch Pandora and very attractive as I have seen your photo. The key lies in what you say above. I have been to the parties where I was the only single in the room and was is funny watching some women as they get all funny thinking you are some sort of threat due to the 'single' tag. What they didn't know, but I did, was I didn't want anyone's sloppy seconds and hung on believing that one day the right guy would come knocking at my front door, with his bags packed (luggage not baggage) saying "honey, I'm home" which is pretty close to what happened to me. There is hope.

 

[pandora]

Here's hoping!