Newly Diagnosed

[PrivateUser]

Hello. I am newly diagnosed with PTSD. I was encouraged to go to see a therapist by my husband, who has been dealing patiently with my angry outbursts and controlling behavior for much of our relationship. After 3 years, his patience has run thin, and he has finally made me realize that there is something going on and that I need help.

I had done tons of reading about controlling behavior, and convinced myself that I had OCPD (Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder). But after a visit to a therapist it seems that may not be the case. She believes that my behavior is rooted in PTSD, brought on by a severe car accident about 10 years ago, and also as the former-long-time partner of a severe alcoholic.

I am just learning about this disorder, and am hopeful that this forum can help me adapt and heal. :)

 

[amethist]

Hi Allie

Welcome to the forum.

Good for you looking for help and to your husband for still being there for you.

He may also need some kind of support, whilst you are working through your issues, and it could get worse before it gets better. Sorry we give honest answers, no good trying to fluffy coat anything, it won't help anyone.

You could suggest your husband has a look on here too, he does not have to register, if he does not want to. The information and support on here will help both of you, and it will be easier, if you both know what you are up against.

Don't be discouraged by the down side of this, once you work through the worst parts, life can be good again. Maybe different than before, but you can come through it all, as long as you can work together.

Take care and keep going forward.

 

[BloomInWinter]

((((((Allie))))))

Welcome to the forum. May you find comfort, rest, acceptance, support, and hope here.

Keep reading, sharing, and speaking gently with yourself. Sending you wishes for rest and comfort....

 

[BigBear]

You could suggest your husband has a look on here too, he does not have to register, if he does not want to. The information and support on here will help both of you, and it will be easier, if you both know what you are up against.

Yes, Welcome! And yes, do encourage him to join here too. My has had undiagnosed PTSD through the first 12 years of our marriage. There is a world to learn for supporters as well as sufferers. I was amazed at how many things I started out by doing wrong.

Again Welcome,

Bear

 

[cherryblossom]

Hello Allie
Welcome to the forum :)