A good book to read is "the girlfriends guide to pregnancy", it gives all the not so nice parts of pregnancy as well as the good points. Tells how it really can be. Wish I would have had that my first pregnancy. I think they even have one for the partners.
I didn't have any anti depressants until the final trimester. By that time, I was a mess. After you deliver the baby your body does go through some major adjustments. I remember bursting into tears one time, I'm not even sure what my husband said to me. I know it wasn't anything mean. He was probably asking what I wanted for supper. It was crazy.
I grew up around the medical field Bubzilla. My mom put herself through nursing school, then I was raised around a bunch of nurses discussing their days. Can't say the doctors were always put in good light. Then, I have had a lot of medical issues in my life time. Both medical and physical. It took me a long time to build the team I now have. It took a lot of bad ones to find the good ones. Almost ruined my look on health care all together. I am very cautious with docs to say the least, and that includes their treatments. I bet your husband has heard some stories. I know I have.
I, too, like what Bilby had to say. I always wanted three children, but had to settle on two due to my health. I'm blessed to have them.
It's an exciting time. I wish you and your husband well!
