I Can't Have Relationships

[Alienated]

And your a Moderator ?? WOW..I'll mark that in my book !!

And your opinion is equally as worthless as mine, isn't equality great !! I agree to disagree, can you do that ?

Or am I going to experience your wrath, because of your inability to give support ? As a moderator in a SUPPORT FORUM !

I live in America, you in England, please do you research before you call someone a liar !


I suggest you go back to doing mod. duties and QUIT replying and agitating people ....

 

[cherryblossom]

And your a Moderator ??

Yes, I'm a moderator, but I'm also a member who has PTSD. I replied to this thread as a member, not as a moderator. I just gave my honest (non moderator) personal opinion.

I agree to disagree, can you do that ?

I have already agreed to disagree with you. I stated my opinion as different to yours and wished you well in your journey in post #12.

am I going to experience your wrath, because of your inability to give support ? As a moderator in a SUPPORT FORUM !

I give support here on the forum, as a member. Being a moderator means that I ensure posts adhere to the forum rules, it doesn't mean that I have to stop having my own opinion. Giving support does not mean that I have to agree with everything any member says. Nor does giving support mean that I say 'There, there. You are right and the rest of the world is wrong'. I actually think that there is nothing wrong with challenging someone, who has a different opinion to me.

If I misinterpret something, then I'm the first to apologise, equally I'm happy to clarify any points I have made that could be misconstrued in the written word.

I live in America, you in England, please do you research before you call someone a liar !

I don't recall calling you a liar - can you clarify your point?

I suggest you go back to doing mod. duties and QUIT replying and agitating people ....

I suggest that you quit being so rude to someone who also has PTSD and has spent time trying to help you.

 

[Alienated]

I appreciate that cherryblossom and I apologize for being rude, I have really had a hard hard hard time, and have been attacked allot.

It really is getting bad over here, and that's why I thought you were saying I was full of it. If you really knew what is happening here you would be shocked, to say the least. And that is what I meant by do your research. I tried to post some links to facts and news stories, but it wouldn't let me post them. And I lost my temper... I am sorry, please forgive me ?

Everything here is backwards... And if you are polite and friendly here... they see it as a weakness and they attack you... So when you say you wouldn't have anything to do with me either.... well maybe you don't know all the facts either. Nobody trusts anyone over here, because there are many predators among us. And all the good people have gone into isolation, because the people in charge of everything... ARE THE PREDATORS !!

That's why I am talking to many people right now, trying to find a place in England to move to.... You guy's got it GOOD over there, and you guy's do have friendly people. I just want to get the Hell out of HERE !!

So again I apologize for the misunderstanding.

 

[cherryblossom]

Hi Alienated, I totally accept and appreciate your apology. Thank you.

All I ever try to be is honest, which kind of leads me on . . .

Everything here is backwards.

I don't think that things are much better else where in the world.

trying to find a place in England to move to....

Honestly; politically, financially, morally . . . 'things' aren't that great over here. Unless you have money to buy a place, and a trade in which you can work, your life won't be any better over in the UK. Trying to find work over here is tough, even for the less well paid jobs. A lot of social housing is on estates where unemployment is high, crime is high and social standards are low.

There are predators everywhere, but there are also good people everywhere. To me that seems to be the point you miss. There are a lot of good, honest people where you live. I don't think moving countries will be the answer to your problems.

I think I should duck out of this conversation, because I think I might be causing more harm than benefit. But, as I said before, I wish you well.

 

[Lady of Longbourn]

Alienated, where have you been looking for support and friends? Sometimes that makes a big difference in the people you find.

 

[Alienated]

I think I should duck out of this conversation, because I think I might be causing more harm than benefit. But, as I said before, I wish you well.

Well we are in total agreement there !! And I have my doubts about that, really I do !!

 

[cherryblossom]

Thanks. You have just clarified that I'm absolutely right not to bother trying to engage with you any further. You really are quite rude.

 

[Nicolette]

Alinated, under normal circumstances I would thread ban you for the way you are being disrespectful however as it is your thread it is now closed.

If you post you have to accept differing opinions and choose which ones to take on board, ignore or comment upon. It is not okay to target someone due to being staff as they are members also.

Think wisely before you start another thread please.