Wastinglight
Platinum Member
So my guy is sick, with man flu or some such thing :-D
He's not overly snuggly most of the time - we hug many times every day (of not more than 5 seconds duration, usually), but mostly that's because I ask for them. He knows I love hugs, so he obliges me, and it's become an expected 'norm' in our relationship.
Last night, however, we spooned most of the night, and this morning he came over to me while I was fiddling on my computer. I shuffled over, as I thought he just want to hop onto his computer, but instead he sat next to me and held me for a long time. Then he instigated another long cuddle when I left for work.
Don't get me wrong, I love that he's giving me so much affection, but I had gotten used to it not being like this.
How funny is it that I'm now thinking: "What's going on with him? What's wrong? What, has he just found out he's got cancer or something?"!!!!
Do any other supporters feel like that sometimes? Do your 'sufferers' ever get all snuggly when they're ill?
He's not overly snuggly most of the time - we hug many times every day (of not more than 5 seconds duration, usually), but mostly that's because I ask for them. He knows I love hugs, so he obliges me, and it's become an expected 'norm' in our relationship.
Last night, however, we spooned most of the night, and this morning he came over to me while I was fiddling on my computer. I shuffled over, as I thought he just want to hop onto his computer, but instead he sat next to me and held me for a long time. Then he instigated another long cuddle when I left for work.
Don't get me wrong, I love that he's giving me so much affection, but I had gotten used to it not being like this.
How funny is it that I'm now thinking: "What's going on with him? What's wrong? What, has he just found out he's got cancer or something?"!!!!
Do any other supporters feel like that sometimes? Do your 'sufferers' ever get all snuggly when they're ill?
