lostforgottensoul
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So it has come to my attention that many perceve my replies in threads as "thread jacking" or "hijacking a thread". I really do not understand it as a first reply is to answer a question or to help any way i can to the orginal poster but when people reply to me, i reply to them and it turns into a conversation, im accused of "hijacking the thread" but in addition someone in messages just told me that i "thread jack" all over the place. If thats how im percieved here then i dont need to be here.
I have missunderstood intentions but have appologized and if i see i am in the wrong I appologize but to say i "hijack threads" when my only intention is to help the poster and people reply to me and i reply to them; if thats taken as thread hijacking then in sorry but i thought this was a forum open to anyone posting supportive replies. I guess its not, it must follow some unwritten rule that through replies to you, a conversation can never spark up.
Oh and i use my own experience, as everyone does; as thats all we have to go off of. I dont compare traumas and dont even see my past as trauma or as a bad or as a wrong thing that happened because it was done to me. If it were someone else it would be wrong in my mind. But i post my intro in a lot of my replies because most wont understand what im trying to convey if they havent read it; because they wont understand where its coming from or where im coming from. But i guess thats called comparing trauma.
This was my only support, unlike the majority of you, i have not one family member that talks to me except 2 and those 2 dont believe me therefore they arent support. I have no friends. I dont have my therapist's cell # or or email address like a lot of you so when i have 200 pills in my hand or when i am trying to gather the nerve to jump in front of the train, i have no one to text or email.
My therapist sent me here to gain support but just like every other attempt to gain support, it failed. Yes i take full responsiblity and i wont post what i think about myself right now as i dont feel safe to.
Just like every other attempt to find support, this has failed as well. I no longer feel safe here; or in general. As being labeled as someone that "thread hacks" all over the place, i dont feel i can reply to anyone even if i feel i can help and i dont feel safe to create threads. The sadess part is the movement in therapy after being stuck for a year happened here; but i wont post if i dont feel safe to.
My only intention when replying to threads was to help; not to hijack the thread.
Time away wont make this go away so my only option is to permantly go away.
Thank you for those that have helped me. It means a lot.
Goodbye everyone!
I have missunderstood intentions but have appologized and if i see i am in the wrong I appologize but to say i "hijack threads" when my only intention is to help the poster and people reply to me and i reply to them; if thats taken as thread hijacking then in sorry but i thought this was a forum open to anyone posting supportive replies. I guess its not, it must follow some unwritten rule that through replies to you, a conversation can never spark up.
Oh and i use my own experience, as everyone does; as thats all we have to go off of. I dont compare traumas and dont even see my past as trauma or as a bad or as a wrong thing that happened because it was done to me. If it were someone else it would be wrong in my mind. But i post my intro in a lot of my replies because most wont understand what im trying to convey if they havent read it; because they wont understand where its coming from or where im coming from. But i guess thats called comparing trauma.
This was my only support, unlike the majority of you, i have not one family member that talks to me except 2 and those 2 dont believe me therefore they arent support. I have no friends. I dont have my therapist's cell # or or email address like a lot of you so when i have 200 pills in my hand or when i am trying to gather the nerve to jump in front of the train, i have no one to text or email.
My therapist sent me here to gain support but just like every other attempt to gain support, it failed. Yes i take full responsiblity and i wont post what i think about myself right now as i dont feel safe to.
Just like every other attempt to find support, this has failed as well. I no longer feel safe here; or in general. As being labeled as someone that "thread hacks" all over the place, i dont feel i can reply to anyone even if i feel i can help and i dont feel safe to create threads. The sadess part is the movement in therapy after being stuck for a year happened here; but i wont post if i dont feel safe to.
My only intention when replying to threads was to help; not to hijack the thread.
Time away wont make this go away so my only option is to permantly go away.
Thank you for those that have helped me. It means a lot.
Goodbye everyone!
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