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Sexual Assault 5 - the five experiences that changed my life.

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My five - five initials

RM - taking advantage of a person who is clearly not thinking straight. A person who is suffering. Who is still very intoxicated in the early hours of the morning. It’s NOT ok to have sex with them.

LW - you both haven’t slept. She’s trying to sleep. You gave her drugs, she accepted. She’s in a dark place, clearly. When she says no to sex. She should only have to say it once. Don’t keep going until she gives in. She doesn’t want too. I laid there.
Face in the bed while you, you took advantage until i pushed you off me. You Cried after, you knew you was wrong at the beginning. No is no.

JF - she is drunk at a party. She goes to bed. She is on her period. She said no to sex. She fell asleep. You pulled down her trousers and forced your way into her. She immediately wakes up and says no, again. No, is no.

LH - I was 15, you were 18 and 19. I was lucky. There were 3 of us. The other girls had it worse. They were my friends. You brought us drinks & cigarettes. You drove us to your place. You both took advantage. LH. You forced you hand down my trousers when I was trying to push you off. You use to tell me how you like your girls ‘shaved’. I hope one day you realise how wrong you both really were.

BD - my first, my first experience of sexual acts. I was 9 years old. I shared a room with you and my sister. You were my mums boyfriends son. You pinned my arms to the wall and put you tongue all over me. When I slept you tried to urinate in my mouth. It took me years to tell anyone, I told my sister. She told me you done similar things to her too. She was was 7.

You 5 have changed my life. From 9 years old until now. I will always remember you.

Sexual abuse and assault happens in all different ways. It’s about knowing and identifying when it is happening. You need to seek help. Come forward and don’t be ashamed. Be strong. Speak up. Open up to someone. It will come back to haunt you.
 
Your message at the end was beautiful. That is such a brave thing, to share your stories like that. Thank you for sharing, you are completely heard, and I’m so sorry you had to experience this. Are you getting help? Or able to talk to someone you trust about what you’ve been through? We’re all here for you.
 
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