catlover7731
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Hi, I am 43 and grew up in a very dysfunctional family. My father left when I was a little girl and my mother raised me. My mother was the victim of monsters for parents. Her father was a rapist, drunk, physical and mentally abusive and her mother knew about the abuse , and was mentally and physically abusive themselves. Life with my mother was hard, and by the time I was 21 I got out of the house and by the time I was 24 I stopped talking to my mother for 19 years. Just got in contact with her and I realize it was a big mistake. She does not stop living in the past and blames me for things that I never did, or happened when I was a baby. I can go on and on.