Sufferer abusive ex PTSD due to court issues, and stalking

[blue23]

so my ex he was a adult when I was a minor, I got pregnant at 16 because of him. He is manipulative he uses women and convinces them he is a victim. He has put a Kinfe to my throat told me he wanted to see if I call the cops or not but told me they would not believe me because there was no evidence to prove it. He would tell me how he gets full custody but of course never happened because he shown he cannot support a child to the court he brought these guys to court to follow me home and they keyed my car but I found out he was going to shoot my car anyway anytime I get unknown messages from him it freaks me out I shake my daughter doing well and I been not having contact or him seeing her ever if he so happens to see her it will be in a cop held faciality which has not happened yet or even in place because our court case is closed I have full custody he been arrested with domestic violence stalking his ex from high school to adulthood.

 

[Riley Jones]

so my ex he was a adult when I was a minor, I got pregnant at 16 because of him. He is manipulative he uses women and convinces them he is a victim. He has put a Kinfe to my throat told me he wanted to see if I call the cops or not but told me they would not believe me because there was no evidence to prove it. He would tell me how he gets full custody but of course never happened because he shown he cannot support a child to the court he brought these guys to court to follow me home and they keyed my car but I found out he was going to shoot my car anyway anytime I get unknown messages from him it freaks me out I shake my daughter doing well and I been not having contact or him seeing her ever if he so happens to see her it will be in a cop held faciality which has not happened yet or even in place because our court case is closed I have full custody

I'm so sorry to hear about the distressing experiences you've been through. It sounds like you've endured a lot, and it's completely understandable that you're feeling shaken and fearful. I'm glad to hear that you have full custody of your daughter and are taking steps to protect her and yourself. Navigating through such traumatic experiences can be extremely challenging, and finding a safe space to share your feelings and connect with others can be helpful.

Myptsd.com offers a supportive community where you can connect with people who understand what you're going through. Whether you're looking to share your story, seek advice, or offer support to others, there are various forums tailored to specific topics related to PTSD and CPTSD.

Remember, reaching out for professional help is also an important step in your healing journey. Therapists who specialize in trauma can offer guidance and support as you work through these experiences.

You're not alone, and there are people who genuinely care and want to support you. Please stay safe, and know that your voice matters.

 

[Lost in the Woods]

That sounds awful. I went through a similar situation and it took a few years for the court to really get what was happening. Your situation may be the same. The important thing is to stay cool and not take the bait when provoked. Be the adult in the room. Good luck, think about a therapist to help you through this and to help you learn about yourself so you don’t get involved with another abuser.

 

[blue23]

That sounds awful. I went through a similar situation and it took a few years for the court to really get what was happening. Your situation may be the same. The important thing is to stay cool and not take the bait when provoked. Be the adult in the room. Good luck, think about a therapist to help you through this and to help you learn about yourself so you don’t get involved with another abuser.

I was in therapy could not afford it anymore the court system take forever to do anything I wished he leave me alone it sucks I do not know why I shake when I get a message from him maybe it PTSD I was diagnosed with it

 

[Lost in the Woods]

Hang in there. The court system for family law is a mess as you are well aware. You get like a two minute hearing and an order to come back in 3 months with a bunch of hoops to jump through in between. Just try to always talk about what is best for the child and try to not get wrapped up in bad mouthing the dad. Usually people like him are their worst enemies to when they taunt and don’t get a response. When you respond you will look as bad as he does. Just keep reminding yourself to be the adult.

 

[Sideways]

Welcome to the forum:)