So this is what has come up recently but I don't know how much of this I can bring up with therapist, for a few reasons.
My brothers were older than me but one was only 1 year older and the other was 6 years older....Kinda feel like it might not be taken as seriously, because of ages and possible "kids being kids" mentality-not that i wanted any of it, at all! But will therapist think otherwise
I don't know the ages that things started and stopped but I remember enough to know it happened. It's came up recently because I still, rarely, see them and I expected them to be at my mums for Christmas Dinner today but they weren't...they've decided to go tomorrow instead but still, the thought of seeing them was difficult because it brings all these things up and the last time I saw them, it ended in a 4am meltdown, by myself and it was scary and I don't know if I can tell therapist about this because she might want to know more about them, want me to name them or even make another referral, on safeguarding grounds....is this likely? Would they still be considered a risk, even though we were all pretty much kids at the time and they're grown now. My little ones are never around either of them. Another thing is the brother that is only a year older than me, has been sending messages to my best friend about "giving her a good time"....he's in a relationship already, so not sure what he's even doing.....my best friend knows about CSA but obviously doesn't know that he was one of them. And another thing! (Sorry!) My little ones dad is taking our little ones to see his mum on Thursday night, I wasn't going to go.. partly because I didn't want to....I'd of happily stayed home, alone and partly because I'm working. Well, he completely put me on the spot in front of his mum and step dad this afternoon and I really felt like I couldn't say no....so I'm not too happy about that!
My brothers were older than me but one was only 1 year older and the other was 6 years older....Kinda feel like it might not be taken as seriously, because of ages and possible "kids being kids" mentality-not that i wanted any of it, at all! But will therapist think otherwise
I don't know the ages that things started and stopped but I remember enough to know it happened. It's came up recently because I still, rarely, see them and I expected them to be at my mums for Christmas Dinner today but they weren't...they've decided to go tomorrow instead but still, the thought of seeing them was difficult because it brings all these things up and the last time I saw them, it ended in a 4am meltdown, by myself and it was scary and I don't know if I can tell therapist about this because she might want to know more about them, want me to name them or even make another referral, on safeguarding grounds....is this likely? Would they still be considered a risk, even though we were all pretty much kids at the time and they're grown now. My little ones are never around either of them. Another thing is the brother that is only a year older than me, has been sending messages to my best friend about "giving her a good time"....he's in a relationship already, so not sure what he's even doing.....my best friend knows about CSA but obviously doesn't know that he was one of them. And another thing! (Sorry!) My little ones dad is taking our little ones to see his mum on Thursday night, I wasn't going to go.. partly because I didn't want to....I'd of happily stayed home, alone and partly because I'm working. Well, he completely put me on the spot in front of his mum and step dad this afternoon and I really felt like I couldn't say no....so I'm not too happy about that!