You cannot discuss circumcision in any manner outside of its intended purpose, being religious... as that is its only reason.
That statement doesn't make sense. Of course you can discuss it in a context outside of religion. It is a medical procedure to remove the foreskin. See, I'm discussing it. I've discussed it outside a religious context the entire time I've spoken - being that I've been discussing it as a medical procedure that is painful and potentially traumatic. Which has nothing to do with
why it's done, nor the debate around it. And, to be honest, it's done by a shitload of people just because, like yourself, their doctors view it as a normal practice. Half the people who get circumcised in North America don't even know the purpose of circumcision in a religious context. Which just strikes me as ridiculous, really.
Hence my reluctance to really discuss it, as people quickly become disjointed and confused due to personal views and beliefs.
I've been discussing it in a religiously neutral context the entire time.
From my perspective it's a matter of belief and opinion, when it comes to discussing circumcision, as it doesn't have a medical purpose beyond relieving
very specific issues
later in life. Which is why it's separate from a procedure in medicine designed to be prophylactic or curative, and which is why the debate on circumcision is mostly always moral/ethical. However,
I'm not debating circumcision. The only thing I debated regarding circumcision was that it is not abnormal - because to an infant, everything is abnormal.
In summary, all I was trying to state beyond any ethical or moral challenge is that
if a person believes that pain can quantify trauma in infancy, they would have to acknowledge that circumcision is included in that definition. Which can potentially validate the OP's initial statement.
Is it right or wrong? It can't be right or wrong because the reasons why people choose to do it are subjective to their individual cultures and religions. Having
been in a Muslim country for a good long time, this was impressed upon me imperatively just to be able to function diplomatically. People have the right to believe whatever they like, that is the joy of human nature. It's like asking whether or not violence, or dressing provocatively is right or wrong. It's always going to be subjective.
If the answer can change between individuals, then it's subjective. I was naming facts, and when I wasn't naming facts, I was making it perfectly clear that it was my opinion. My opinion which did not have to do with religious or cultural indications, but was based on the
religiously neutral medical component. I think it is unnecessary, yep. I have rants about it, Yep. From a medical perspective, I sure do.
It only means that I, a person who is not religious and therefore does not comprehend the religious aspect, think it is medically unnecessary and potentially harmful. Because I am not religious, I can't understand that the benefits outweigh the harm. Thus, I am against it, for precisely the reasons I outlined above: Because it is constitutes trauma that I cannot understand is justified from my individual non-religious point of view. Which does not mean that religion is unjustified, just because I can't comprehend it. Being spiritual, I understand how important my own beliefs are to me.
Does that mean it is unnecessary or wrong, just because I think so?
No. People go through ritual trauma on a daily basis within their own cultures for their own reasons, and truthfully - circumcision is no different from that. And any mental issues that arise as the result of circumcision are more accurately attributed to neurological predisposition for mental illness/anxiety/etc that was there beforehand anyway.
Despite what people/you may believe about me being closed minded, I am perfectly aware that just because I believe something, does not make it fact. I can also acknowledge that I don't make this clear very well. But I think it goes without saying that by now, it should be clear, as I've made it obvious tenfold. There are a lot of people the world over who genuinely believe that they must have their children circumcised or else they will fail a religious expectation and that failure is haunting, and crushing to them, and potentially to their children who may be ingrained with the same religious beliefs later in life.
Beliefs are important, we all need them, so I don't believe I have a right to tell people what is right or wrong, only what I feel and think and believe - which should be able to exist independently of someone else's thoughts and beliefs.