Cheque’s haven’t been cashed in 6 weeks

[Bluejam]

Yup I get it...I didn’t ask sooner, I don’t know how chequing (much less spell it) account works, I don’t know how to handle my finances, I should go back to school, I should e-transfer or better yet treat her like a drug dealer and cash only, do a lot more self talk, that I’m asking too much of my T, I should be more assertive but not lose control...anybody else have anything else to say? I’m just about done with “advice”.

 

[Friday]

I think it’s time to probably remind people

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@Bluejam you’ve gotten a lot of different suggestions, ideas, & opinions on your initial questions. If I’m wrong, and you’d like more, please use contact us and we’ll reopen this thread.

However, as you asked questions later in thread -which very much relate- your OP is going to also continue to get answers, which seems to be causing a great deal of distress.

My suggestion is to start a new thread with your later questions, so they can be discussed without the cheque cashing thing muddying the waters.

For now, this thread is locked.