My partner and I had issues last year. We both told stupid lies and I thought when we agreed that it was wrong but put it in the past.
My bf doesn’t like me chatting to other males eg work colleagues etc so I make sure I don’t.
Tonight my sister had a few people to her house few people from work. One female who I am very close too and she travelled with another male from work who was also there. They were all drinking but I’m almost 20 weeks pregnant with bfs baby and he’s working. So I popped over for a couple of hours to see another friend who I hadn’t seen in a few weeks.
My partner was acting a bit suspicious and told me he was coming home from night shift so I said to the company I was going home and left. Within the 5 mins my bf phoned me and said I hear a mans voice there. I asked why the hell there’d be a man here.
He went off the phone anyway then sent me a text and asked was I actually home. I sent a picture of the room basically proving I was
He then text me saying exactly who all was at Hollies (my sisters)
I told him; sister, Clare, Ben and Janine
He text me “good night!” Meaning that was the end to our conversation... I know he’s pissed cos 1 dude was there but I find it extreme that he’s now ignoring me..... wtf do I do. It’s somewhat controlling and being pregnant not what I want to be dealing with .... I doubt this a PTSD issue but how do I go about getting my point across without making them his bigger drama over nothing ?
