I have had symptoms of PTSD for over twenty years and had one head injury prior to that. However, five years ago, I suffered a head injury that really messed me up. Some dingle-berry did something stupid which led to me falling straight back, splitting my head open on the corner of a stainless steel prep table. I went to the ER, had the scans, got my staples, and was pronounced pretty okay if more than a bit rattled (some swelling of the brain). Here’s the thing. I’ve worked in restaurant for fourteen years or so. For the longest time, after my injury, I couldn’t figure out what to do at work; everything confused me. Simple tasks left me helpless and I was extraordinarily frustrated knowing that I had trained the staff, they seemed to know what to do, but I couldn’t figure out how it all fit together. Once I managed to lock my car keys in the house and my house keys in the car. To this day, I can’t explain how that happened.
For the most part, I have fully recovered though, on occasion, I still can’t do simple math. As I’ve always been good at math, the 1% of the time it doesn’t make sense, frustrates me beyond belief – someone who has always loved advanced math and physics. But it’s been over five years and I still have problems from the head injury. I’ve found a lot of ways around it though, sometimes, I’ll still have to have someone do simple addition for me (1% of the time). Still, on occasion, someone will tell me a story I should remember, but I don’t, and other times simple tasks seem impossible. I get by very well most of the time.
I agree with some of the others. Some of her symptoms sound like PTSD, but a lot of them sound like trauma that was either misdiagnosed or never addressed. I know I was sent out with a clean bill of health when I couldn’t perform basic functions.
I kind of hate to mention this as I find very few doctors I would trust to make a diagnosis … but is there any chance the head injury could have ‘freed’ her in some way that has led to the display of some symptoms of PTSD? Is there anything in her past that maybe is still raw and unfaced? Eh. I’m not a fan of this theory. But I would seek a doctor’s advice and see if she’ll get checked again. To this day, I still have repercussions and, compared to what your wife is facing, if it is all due to head trauma, there’s no comparison. It’s like your combining two different issues. That’s why I throw my hat in the ring with those that say ‘second opinion’.