Feeling Unwanted And Unloved

[ms spock]

Big hugs you Ms Spock.​

[DLMURL="https://www.ptsdforum.org/c/members/sandra.10838/"]Sandra[/DLMURL],

 

[Sandra]

Great job Ms Spock...hugs.

And yes this conversation sure hit the bottom of our hearts when it really was a very deep topic.

 

[ms spock]

Sandra said: [DLMURL="https://www.ptsdforum.org/c/goto/post?id=264714#post-264714"]↑[/DLMURL]

When our parents never made us feel valued sure makes it much harder to deal with the world in everyway not just with relationships.​

Absolutely! Everything in every way is so hard!

Perhaps we can start another thread to discuss this? We have gone off topic here.

What will we call our thread? Any suggestions?

This, what we are typing now, I feel is really important. It might be good to get all this in to one thread
so if there is anyone else out there, like us, they can have the relief that I am feeling being able to type this.

ms spock

Hmm maybe Feeling UNWANTED AND NOT NEEDED?​

I was thinking the same thing about getting off topic.​

[DLMURL="https://www.ptsdforum.org/c/members/sandra.10838/"]Sandra[/DLMURL],

Awesome Title!​

Do you want to start it? Or will I? Which part of the forums will we put it in? I have no idea so I will be guided by you on that one.​

ms spock​

I'll let the beautiful Australian lady do the honours. :)​

[DLMURL="https://www.ptsdforum.org/c/members/sandra.10838/"]Sandra[/DLMURL],

LOL Which forum will I start "Feeling UnWanted and UnLoved" in?​

Would you mind if I copy and pasted our conversation in to this thread "Feeling UnWanted and UnLoved" ?​

[DLMURL="https://www.ptsdforum.org/c/members/ms-spock.4413/"]Ms Spock[/DLMURL],

 

[ms spock]

I was thinking Discussions.​

And then after the posts get put in other thread the Moderator can delete these accidentally went off topic posts.​

Sandra​

Ok Discussions it is! And you are thinking along the same type of lines as I am.​

It is up to the Mods - they might want to leave our discussion in this thread because it is where it developed to or it might be too off topic.​

But this means it is easier for them, and for us, in following the thread.​

ms spock​

 

[Sandra]

And right on with the "unloved" word.

 

[James B.]

I'm seriously moved by this thread...thanks for starting it.

 

[Sandra]

Sadly James B it is so true in my situation.

 

[James B.]

Sometimes this stuff just isn't easy or completely rational to get out or discuss, but the topic, the thread title hits me right between the eyes...lol I guess I feel this way. In a really secret personal way.

Good job ms spock.

 

[ms spock]

Big hugs for you too, Sandra

and thanks for those you offered me!

 

[Sandra]

So true James B. I guess this really hit home with Ms Spock and myself.

 

[James B.]

Well, you can feel unwanted and unloved, or you can feel the way i do: hated by family, better off dead or morbidly disabled so as to appease their need for blood lust in destroying me. If they could kill me with impunity, the personal history of their behavior indicates, they would have. Thus destroying what all abusers fear - reprisal with evidence.

 

[Sandra]

I'm a huggy person even in real. So if you were here I would be giving real ones to you. :)