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LostOne1985
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@KwanYingirl That is great you were able to do that with your kids and you have that connection with them. I just feel i breed independent individuals, i want them to be resourceful and can one day take care of their own without me and my wife. She is a very dependent when it comes to her family and that is what bothers me. I wish i could just move away but i know i would lose my kids in the process. It just does not seem fair to me because life has robbed them of my mother and father. I think if my mother was her because of her personality she would do anything for them because she was that type of person. My father would try and be there to make up for lost time. It just sucks because i feel life is robbing of them of grandparents because her sister will not even say you know what my kids are always with you guys why do you go spend some time with my sisters kids. It is just being courteous, but instead she would keep those grandparents all to herself and her kids. It is just selfish and not fair and i have made it very noticeable that i do not like that or them. All i can say and this maybe me messed up to say regardless if they are there or not they will always have a father that cares what happens to them.
