Going Away

[anthony]

One fact in life is that you will die. People either accept the fact and enjoy life and life of others, companionship, etc, or they dwell on the negatives of something we have no control over. Nobody controls life and death... its completely out of our hands. We have input into it... but we don't control it.

Enjoy it whilst you can lilstar, and remember the good times with your grandad. Celebrate the life experience shared... and take care of yourself please.

 

[WonderingWhy]

lilstar,
I am sorry to hear about your Grandfather.:( I am going to repeat some of what others have already said. You need to enjoy the time you have now with him. Please don't dwell on the inevitable(for us all). Celebrate the memories you have and enjoy this chapter in your Grandfather's life. One day we all will have that final chapter. There is no way to stop that! It sounds as though he's had a long life. Celebrate that and the joys you shared during that with him.

Once a loved one leaves us, we all need that time to mourn and come to our closure in our own time and way. Save that for when he is gone. Don't waste the precious time you have with him mourning him, enjoy him. Make it the best time possible.

I understand it is by no means simple to do, but if you can enjoy this time it will make it more enjoyable for him!
Be strong and just do the best you can. I will keep you, your grandfather and family in my thoughts and prayers.:confused:

(((HUGS)))