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Happy Memories

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Jen93

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I started this thread because of something I read on one of the Wikis. It said that we remember traumatic things easier than happy things. To that end, I'd like to share happy memories. Memories that make us smile are just as important as memories that made us numb or cry, maybe even more so. So please, share your happy memories, the ones that make you smile, and hopefully your day will brighten up too!

They can be recent memories, or memories from your childhood. They can be something as simple as meeting a new friend, or as complicated as walking a tightrope at a circus. Whatever it is, as long as it's something that made you feel good- because if we have to remember the bad times, we can at least try to make an effort to remember the good times too!

1.Going on the see-saw in the playground with Daddy. He'd let me go low by straightening his knees, and then he'd let me go high up to the sky by squatting on the see-saw. He wouldn't let me down until I told him I'd give him a hug. And he'd do the same. :) I was three years old.

2. Staying at school during those annoying half days, when there were exams in the afternoon and classes in the morning. Nobody else went to the morning classes- except my best friend! We would go bug our physics teacher. :) One time, I wrote the lyrics to "A Whole New World" from Aladdin on the blackboard. It was fun. I was sixteen.

3. Trying to teach my brother the song "Jingle Bells Batman smells/Robin laid an egg/batmobile lost a wheel and Joker did ballet hey!" in the car going to my babysitters. It didn't work too well. He sang "Jingle Bells Batman smells/laid an egg" and stopped. He was two. I was seven. I had to listen to him sing that for about three minutes, from the coffee shop to my babysitters house. It was cute. :) We still talk about it.

So there are some happy memories. I'll add more if I think of any, and I hope others do too! Even though life can be awful sometimes, it can also be really great, and happy memories remind us of that. So share! They don't need to get too personal, but if they make you feel good, I'm sure they'll make others feel good too! (Please post in list form like I did to separate the memories if you post more than one in a post.)
 
On Sunday afternoons, when I was a child, we'd go for that "Sunday Drive" to Vermont or Massateusets [sp?] and it was great. We'd find some restaurant for dinner way off somewhere, after travelling through the mountains or something. Sometimes we'd even go eat at our distant cousin Patty's restaurant. We'd get to her place after dark, because it was quite a distance. Then we might get home by 3AM, but I would have slept in the back of the station wagon, so I could make it to school the next day.

Then, my husband and I, much later, would go down the shore of New Jersy, south of where we lived to our favorite restaurant. There, we always ordered their home-made burgers, better than a steak! These were juicy, never frozen, not patties, they were hefty and served with some other things that were yummy too. We'd sit at our reserved table, by the ocean, even though we'd never asked for that table! It was just an unspoken agreement, I guess, between the owners and us. Made us feel really at home.
 
The moment I realized my youngest son has the advocate gene in him(like his mother) and always cheers for the underdog (like his mother), except he has the voice I don't have.

The moment, with my oldest, that I discovered, despite his being aloof, he truly is a compassionate human being that is definitely tuned into the people around them and that he has always had love and compassion for me (despite whatever failings I may feel I have).

Every moment that I realize how blessed and fortunate I am for such children.
 
This is a great thread Jen!

Getting to fly for the first time. I was 16 and a friend of mine had an older sister who just got her pilot's license. She had a small plane, flew to the town I was living in and took me up. It was a 2 seater tomahawk, a tiny little plane and I loved it! I was living on a farm a few miles away and she flew there and buzzed the house. It was great! The sky was blue, the mountains were in the distance and the fields were all green. I felt so free up there. She even pretended to let me take the controls for a few minutes.
 
My best friend at school, whose face lit up every morning when she saw me. I have a hundred happy memories of the time we were friends, until her family moved away.

But the best is the day my daughter was born and seeing her for the first time. And I have two hundred happy memories that have accumulated over the past 7 years.
 
Everyone's doing a great job! :D I'm so proud of all of you, being able to remember happy times too and realize that you don't have to be scared of memories, that they're not all traumatic.

  • Having a "Barbie fashion show" with my cousins and friends at the cottage when I was about nine.... We dressed up our barbies and paraded them down the "runway" (picnic table) and someone announced each barbie. :inlove: I miss my Barbies.
 
I wanted this thread! Happy memories from childhood are weekends spent with my grandma on fathers side. We'd make small plays or dances and perform them for my grandfather, and she took me to see lots of plays at the theater. Also one happy memory with mother, sitting on her lap in a chair in front of a fireplace. She read to me, we ate dark chocolate, her boyfriend was gone for a few weeks. I felt calm, happy and relaxed right then and there.
 
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