I just found this forum... I hope I learn new things from you all!!! Currently I am dating a wonderful man who has been diagnose with PTSD, due to his military career... Although I work with veterans and active service members, I never thought I would have to deal with PTSD in my personal life. I am grateful I knew about PTSD before meeting him because it has helped me a lot. But sometimes I am afraid I could seem selfish and not understanding when he decides to hide in his shell and leaves me alone... I came here to read from others, and learn new ways to cope... I am looking for a great learning experience!!!