Hello

[Clarity99]

Supportin, best of luck this week! It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and have learned enough to take things slow and not put any undue pressure on your gf. Please let us know how it goes! I too, have been looking into EMDR therapy, although the closest clinician is 8 hours from me (by car) and I'm sure its quite pricey!

I have been to co-dependency meetings in the past and I think the term is quite over-used. Some people are just natural care-takers but we have to be sure to take care of ourselves too!

 

[SupportinVA]

I'm feeling pretty good today, I picked her up last night and we went to run get prescriptions filled and grab some food. We had a very nice night and I did end up going home with the understanding that if she was having a hard night she'd give me a call and I could come over as I only live about 5 minutes away. Hopefully today will be as good as yesterday.

 

[Tinyflame]

Dear Support,

That's an important agreement to make, so you must be doing something very right.

Hope it goes well for both of you.