Help! Advice

[Grace511]

I don't think its right she tried to get with you while she had a boyfriend. You deserve someone better than that. Who is to say if you did get with her she would not do the same to you? Not cool. Move on and find someone else. I know finding someone when you have PTSD is hard but you will!

 

[nursenurse]

And maybe you won't, a lot of us without PTSD have had to face that. And you know what? it's okay to be by yourself, as long as you learn to love yourself. And then sometimes a relationship will smack you upside the jaw when you least expect it, and sometimes not. Same advice for sufferers as well as supporters. Make your life as rich and fulfilling as you possibly can for yourself. if someone is meant to be there for you, they will show up, one day. If not, you still have a wonderful, rich and fulfilling life,to the best of your ability.

 

[Grace511]

nursenurse is right. I am 23 and I have never been in a relationship. I look at it as, if its meant to happen, it will.

 

[Pencil]

write lots of bad poetry

I love that!

 

[Philippa]

She may be sweet, but the fact is she was cheating on her boyfriend with you, so what's stopping her from doing the same to you when someone else comes along? A sweet cheat is still a cheat.

 

[edgar]

Dude it gets pretty weird, the more I look on their facebooks. I can match dates we went to eat out and her saying she had so much fun and she so happy I did this and that, probably same night or a couple days later shes telling her boyfriend that he is the love of her life. She used to call me this "name" that she call her boyfriend.

Even a week ago it was his birthday and she has this whole paragraph saying how they first met and how she loves him, probably the same night she was calling me love and all this other stuff. I remember one time her boyfriend came to work when we first started talking she told me that was her cousin and she loves her cousin. Theirs pictures that she sent me which show on her facebook that it was tagged with him. It's crazy, multiple times I told her lets just be friends and she had a opportunity to save face but I guess she wanted it...

 

[Delta62]

*confused* What is she recovering from? Cheaters syndrome? Lol. The original poster is a sufferer not the supporter.

I misread the post, I'll clarify my answer. She isn't worth it, she is going through the cycle of breaking up with someone. He has to take care of himself and not get sucked into it. What's not to stop him from ending up being in a rebound and then a worse situation? We all like to be held at night but seeing her could open a whole can of worms.