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Sufferer Hi Everyone, I'm Numb 90% Most Of The Time

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Lady A, don't feel guilty, I don't know your story, but not everyone can make this journey. If you have made the best decision for you, then go through the crack in the door, and don't look back. Do things for you, make your life. It will get easier, as it always does when a relationship ends. It just takes that 4 letter word, time. Peace.
 
Hi nursenurse, thank you for the encouragement, I am lucky to have my family's support, so I will keep on going forward.

My story is, I married this wonderful man 4 years ago, ad I really believed in him, but little by little I discovered that he lied to me about so many things, specially his online activity, we argued about this, and I thought he would change for the sake of our marriage, he suffers from PTSD, and I really have tried to understand his situation, but everytime that we had a problem he became more distant and more open about his online activity, which a couple of weeks ago became more open. He decided to subscribe to online single's sites, and I found out, still giving him the benefit of the doubt, yesterday, on facebook one of his profile's likes appeared and I saw it, confronted him and he denied the whole thing. He said it was not him, but I knew otherwise. So I said I'm done, grabbed some stuff and walked out.

Immediately after he blocked me from his Facebook account and hasn't made the effort to contact me. I don't think he ever cared about me. He said that his online activity makes him happy.
 
I am so sorry. There for the grace of God go I. Cheating is a deal breaker. Your guy is unable to confront himself. Sigh. I am so happy that you have a supportive family, I hope you go out and travel and live a good life. I am a firm believer that living well is the best revenge, and while my Ex (non PTSD) is hopping from relationship to relationship, bed to bed, and calling me the Wicked Witch of the West, i am working in a job I adore, travelling the world, helping the poor and downtrodden and enjoying my friends and family. There is life after a break up. You will be fine. Grieve the relationship if you need to, but you know you did everything you could. Now it's time for you :)
 
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