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[ms spock]

I know that some people here have had this for less time than I have, and are more "recovered" than I am. I try not to let it bother me, as I am what I am. I can't rush this, I will only recover as quickly as I can recover.

I have read things on this forum from people who have suffered things I didn't know were possible. Things that have made me feel ill after reading. I mention this because I look at these people and how they are coping with what surely would have driven me to suicide, but they are still here trying to get better. From these people I draw immense inspiration.

I also know that the only person who's recovery I am responsible for is my own. There is no right or wrong in it. If I never recover, that's unfortunate, but it is what it is. It doesn't mean I didn't try, or that I gave up. Just that life is not fair.

That is a wonderfully heartfelt, realistic and rational response. I will bookmark it. Thanks @Neverthesame!

 

[shell]

Most people with PTSD don't advertise it, why would you assume they would be any different, if they had. I don't think it helps to compare yourself to others.

 

[ghotiff]

Isn't support after trauma also a critical factor in recovery.

My trauma isnt even comparable to hers but I only now have support, 25years after my trauma stopped and my family remains in denial.

My point is there are so many factors. Then, add in that we have no idea what's really going on for her.

 

[Recovery4Me]

I applaud each and every poster on this thread. It is like basking in a collective of little Yoda(s). May the force be with you!:clown:

 

[Lucycat]

Anybody care to fill the gaps? Who is she and what is this all about?

Is there a link somewhere?

 

[Nighthawk]

Just to clarify I am not compairing myself to anyone. I applaude all the hard work people do in order to overcome or manage whatever their demons and symtoms are. My goal is to be a me. Discovering who that is is challenging.

This topic is based on the Cleavland Kidnapings by Arial Castro

 

[Kintsugi]

I have no idea who you're referencing, but I do know there is a lovely condition called Post Traumatic Growth.

 

[Recovery4Me]

@Lucycat & @Simply Simon

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ariel_Castro_kidnappings