How's Your Day Been? Each Day is Different, So Make Your Mark Daily

[piglet]

Glad you're feeling a bit better Anthony - listen to Kerrie-Anne and get your rest, cos you're not going to get any once babe arrives!

Veiled - I wish you well with Monday - damn brat wants his butt kicking big time (castration sounds like it would be a good option too!).

Myself - a day at a time. So much stress, so little time... Still playing the waiting game with my work situation.

 

[anthony]

You sound a bit more relaxed though Piglet.... which is positive. I will rest now, no worries about that. It is good that you seem a little more relaxed... and the waiting game gives you some room to just chillout I expect. Leave everything alone, just chill and get past this employment issue without helping fuel their fire with healing problems.

 

[kimG]

Anthony, glad to hear you are feeling somewhat better. Rest up as much as you can...before too long you know there won't be much sleep happening for any of you!

Veiled...I think it's time you open up a can...you know...that can of WhoopAss! They'd have to pull me off the little f*cker and even with that I'd still be holding onto a certain body part of his....twisting and turning it along the way....

Phew...I feel better now...

 

[Marlene]

All I know is don't F* with my babies.

You go, girl! Adding my vote for the big can of whoop ass.

My oldest was sexually harrassed when she was 13 or 14. Teachers wouldn't do anything to stop it. I told her to tell him 'You don't speak to me like that' and if that doesn't work-knock him on his ass! She told him, he said it again, and she knocked him on his ass! I was so proud of her!!!!

It's frustrating when we have our kids follow the rules and then the system lets them down because of the apathy and/or laziness of teachers or principals.

 

[goingonhope]

Not too bad of a day today. Enormous improvement in feeling, thinking and functioning. Drastically different just a few days ago. Enjoyed some time and play, today with my children. Got out. Accomplished much. Have plans with someone else to go to a 6 hr. event tommorrow morning. Hoping all goes well.

 

[Deleted member 93]

My day was recovering. I lucked out and did not have to do the plumbing repairs! The ex I am OK with had taken pain killers for the kidney stones and stopped in since he was feeling good. Damn near gave me a heart attack coming in. He could not go in to work as he was on the pain killers and they don't go together, high risk job. But he saw I felt like crap and wasn't wanting to move and he "repaid" hubs favor by doing the repairs. So the well works again yeah!

Family worked as a team with my brainy teen boy going through the code of conduct and the protocols in the school's rule book in regards to every detail he could pull as a violation to the tiniest detail (his sis should appreciate that trait he has being so anal now LOL). I cannot sit still and sort through it myself. Sat with my daughter to pull every tiny detail lastnight until I could do it no more with us writing it down and her crying as I asked her every insignifigant detail, told her if a fly farted she needs to tell me and me telling her this was in no way her fault. Will go back at it tomorrow.

She was afraid of telling me she cussed at him, I said you think you invented cussing? And I am so brain dead to not know a teen does it??? Puhleeezzz... Hubs talked to his dad how to approach the principal as my father in law is a high school principal. So we are getting our ducks all in a row to nail the living shit out of them. Teen girl was confused as what goes on in threapy is private without my knowing. I told her all her bitching about me is. But when it comes to this and it comes to this level she has to tell me period so I could handle it. Does not mean she has to tell me a damn thing about other shit in therapy.

Pretty sore but considering I don't do much to a flying blind rage and can't recall all of... it happens.

Just going to try and finish recovering and getting this out and arranged so no body has wiggle room. Try to keep grounding myself this weekend and meditating and calm so I don't blow all over the office.

This zero tolerance policy now in place is BS as it seems kids who do not follow rules get looked over a lot until another stands up for them self. Then they both go down with tickets for us to pay and suspension too. Since she did not do anything except tattle it was blown off.

3 AM and a breaking news report? Saddam found guilty sentenced to hanging... hope shit does not hit the fan too hard for all our boys.

 

[Nam]

Veiled, what are you doing up?

 

[Nam]

I'm up because I went to a party. It's good to be surrounded by friends. I got commissioned to do artwork and went to his house to do measurements and found myself drinking......stayed for several hours. So here I am, pretty much impressed that I can even type, and ready to go to bed.

Veiled, I hear you. That kid has no idea what he is up against......

Glad you're feeling better Anthony. I'm thinking of you and your family and the new addition.

 

[anthony]

Thanks guys and girls, feeling much better. Saddam... shithot, hope the neck doesn't break straight away either, just so he can suffer some pain for the pain he has caused so many innocent people.

 

[Deleted member 93]

oopps just saw this. Just up "loving insomnia". Get a couple hours of a good nap and my body thinks it is readyto go for another 24...

But it is nice little one got up to find me and hear her laugh in her sleep.

Yes, I think a nice slow rise, no bottom drop on him. This world is just f*ed up.

 

[Deleted member 3]

Feeling good. Still here with babe intact, have to wait until the chicken pox episode is over. Don't want the newborn getting chicken pox! Poor little mite, the spots are driving him crazy and trying to keep a toddler from scratching is almost impossible. Anthony as you are aware is a lot better, thank god. No chance he was getting out of this birth, sick or not!! As for him not getting too much rest soon, don't feel too bad for him. Our babies are breastfed which means that since Daddy doesn't have the right equipment not much he can do, might as well sleep!! Almost two years of sleep deprivation for me (as Alexander has only just started sleeping through) and some more to come. That's alright I have told Anthony that after the b/f is over, any sickness, illness, sleepless nights with babies, children or teenagers will be his. I will have done my penance!

Hope you are all feeling a little better today. You take care Veiled. If rest is what you need then rest is what you must do. You and Anthony would make a fine pair!

 

[Deleted member 93]

Do not miss pregnancy or new born poop. But breast feeding. I think those moments kept me sane. Hormones or what ever is going on. It was just pure and peaceful. Calmed my mind and soul. I miss those bonding moments.

I hated I had to wean little one early. And actually I think there was a correlation. As she was eating a lot more solids and not so much momma I went through that cycle again and crashed and had to do a cold turkey wean as they medicated me. Very hard and felt so unfair.

Cherish every moment that lil' one wakes you, and yeah guys who have momma do the breast route do get off easy! But they don't get the luxury of those feelings so unique to it...

So happy for ya'll and can't wait to hear the news. Just remember there is no "due date", baby decides that. Before it was a 4 week time frame you could expect the little one. I was "past due" and annoyed... I was so ready for her to be out. teen boy was mad as he has his birthday in December too and pouted I may ruin his birthday. They have the dates a week apart. But all I could tell him was you lil' ass I never had my own BD I had to share it with sis!

And glad to hear you did the tummy cast. Was on my to do list but things were a cluster (in this house?). I really regret not doing it because there are no more babies from here if I have a say.

I will take care. Hubs off today so I will get rest. You to need to rest and take care. You have your hands full so many bo bos to kiss. I was lucky no pox. For some reason females on my mom's side never got it after exposure. My oldest girl got it but just one pox spot. First for generations from what I was told. Teen boy got it. But I run if I see a kid with them now, no point in tempting fate.