I don't think we were meant to go through all of this hurt

[saraemerald]

We are all beautiful people who are going through so much hurt. Why? I don't know but I think it's unfair. We all deserve beautiful lives that are completely fullfilled emotionally, physically, sexually and spiritually. I believe there are ways we can heal and truly reconnect with ourselves so we can heal and feel well and alive again. I am writing this to send light and love to anyone out there that is suffering so bad and in so much pain and struggling to see the light. I love you all on this community trying to reach out to repair all of your hurts and wounds so we can all participate more in life and have joy in our lives and share this with others.

 

[Deleted member 37474]

I don’t think that I am meant to feel this much pain. Normally (even with ptsd) I don’t, but the recent flashback hurts way too much. I pray that your wishes for all of us come true!

 

[ladee]

That's a beautiful gesture @saraemerald , because it's thoughts like this that help us all thru what we have to do to heal.
Life is not fair...and we work with what we have, and the support we gain along the way...and we help each other best we can. That's why you are here, to help remind us.... things can and will get better... sending you hugs..

 

[Deleted member 541]

Bad shit happens to everyone, it doesn’t discriminate. Everyone suffers on this earth, just in different ways. We’re no different, we just have different issues to deal with. Everyone also has some kind of support in their lives. We’re lucky because ours is world wide and from people with many different perspectives and life lessons that we can take from.

Nope, not fair, but it’s what we’ve been dealt, and so we must play out the hand....

 

[Treaty]

It really shouldn’t happen. major human design flaw. But keep pushing for some good thT may come.

 

[EveHarrington]

We were dealt more than our share?

Maybe in my last life I was like a serial killer or something and this is my penance.

 

[Fadeaway]

Maybe in my last life I was like a serial killer or something and this is my penance.

That is one of the reasons I reject the idea of karma. I couldn't bare it if my soul in a previous life had done the type of thing that would cause me the pain I have had in this life. I would want to find a way to end the existence of my soul as it shouldn't be allowed to exist.

There are other reasons I reject the concept of karma but that is a thread for another day.

 

[saraemerald]

That is one of the reasons I reject the idea of karma. I couldn't bare it if my soul in a previous lif...

Same here. That notion or belief can be used in a bad way to shame people

 

[Lionheart]

That notion or belief can be used in a bad way to shame people

I was once told that I must have been a child molester in a previous life and that is why I was a victim/survivor of sexual child abuse....I too reject the notion!!!

Sorry did not mean to go off topic... Great opening post!!!

 

[EveHarrington]

.....I didn’t continue but I will now!

The rest of my thought was that I’m going to come back as a f*cking rockstar or something awesome like that in my next life.

Interesting how everyone else’s mind went in such a different direction.

In my line of work.....let’s just say after what I’ve seen, I definitely believe in karma. (It’s not a career you’d jump to the idea of karma though.)

Do good, get good.

Do bad, get bad.

 

[Lionheart]

@EveHarrington , I didn't realized that you hadn't finished your thoughts...,my apologies.

Still, in keeping with the OP's topic, I just have to say that while I believe in the idea of Karma, I don't think bad karma is the answer to every bad thing that happens to us.

Sometimes bad things happen to good people and we truly do not deserve the hurt from the traumas we have endured. Like @saraemerald said, "I don't think we were meant to go through all of this hurt!"

I just wanted to be clear on that so no one uses the idea of karma as another way to blame themselves for things that are or were outside of their control.​

 

[EveHarrington]

I should have added a winky face.

You guys are heavy serious.

My responses are half in jest.