Relationship I Finally Gave Up

[Iamhere]

My guy has been "MIA" since last Saturday... Wednesday I got a so not very nice text from him (I kinda blame myself for Pushing him) I haven't heard from him since. He told me as well he can't be in a relationship or even be exclusive it hurt me to hear that. Knowing that I have bent over backwards and he can't even give me dating stability, yes it killed me in the beginning but now I see it as that's fine... Ill stop prioritizing him and just go on about my life and stand on the sidelines as a friend and not as a hopeful "GF". I really have to move on for my own sanity, even though its easier said than done, I HAVE TO DO IT. He's hurt me, but he's also helped me open my eyes to not be so kind and giving.

 

[BewitchedBewildered]

I've been there. My sufferer went MIA 3 months ago this coming Monday. I keep finding ways to blame myself, "I pushed him", but after bending over backwards for almost 3 years, I know, logically, I didn't push too much.

I was more accepting, accommodating, selfless than even before in a relationship. I still miss him terribly, I feel weak because of that. But I also know its for the best, because obviously, he didn't, or couldn't, love me.

I wish you both the best. I hope we all find something in life to fulfill us. I won't be trying for love agaain, at least not any time soon, but I wish that for you!